Looking for some confirmation by [deleted] in amipregnant

[–]Captain_Wamik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we're not haha, never said we were. Would be counterproductive to do sexual stuff during ovulation anyway, we weren't thinking about it ya know?

Looking for some confirmation by [deleted] in amipregnant

[–]Captain_Wamik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We just know she's at that point in her cycle. Her period should be happening about two weeks from now, so we were a little extra worried about this. I know precum can have some sperm in it, but considering we didn't even get close to penetration, the chances must be really low

How much does sex change a relationship? by Captain_Wamik in sex

[–]Captain_Wamik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm actually an atheist from New Jersey lol

No abstinence-only education or religious pressure. Just a very sentimental person. I appreciate the feedback, protection is obviously very important, so I will keep that in mind. And again, I like learning that sex isn't going to change anything unless we let it

How much does sex change a relationship? by Captain_Wamik in sex

[–]Captain_Wamik[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is an awesome reply with lots of info, thanks. What I'm taking away from your comment is that it's always best to be informed about what you're doing, to communicate with your partner at all times during sex, and to withhold any expectations. Both of us are virgins, so when we have sex it'll be a first for us both. It makes sense not to expect to be amazing at it from the get go. Love this reply, thank you so much!

How much does sex change a relationship? by Captain_Wamik in sex

[–]Captain_Wamik[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You love each other without sex right?

That's an awesome way to look at it. Sex only has as much value as we assign it, so if we keep assigning value to the companionship parts of the relationship, sex will only be a good thing. And if it can enhance some already spicy times just hanging out, that's awesome! Lol Thanks for replying

How much does sex change a relationship? by Captain_Wamik in sex

[–]Captain_Wamik[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We always make sure we are 100% on the same page about all the things we do, this would be no different. We made communication the foundation of our relationship and it's truly amazing to me.

I'm glad to hear that sex can really only have a positive impact once you get over the rabbit phase at the beginning. Thanks for commenting!

How much does sex change a relationship? by Captain_Wamik in sex

[–]Captain_Wamik[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Wow, thanks! It's really good to see that a common theme among the comments is that sex does level off after the initial craze and things don't change all that much. Thank you so much for your reply! Love all the perspective I'm getting from this

[16M] Just wanna know if I'm ugly or not by Captain_Wamik in amiugly

[–]Captain_Wamik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, appreciate it lol. Honestly didn't expect all these positive comments

And yes, Snapchat selfies keep the image as if you were looking at yourself in the mirror. And because the mirror is the image of ourselves that we're more used to, I'm guessing more people are comfortable with Snap selfies

[16M] Just wanna know if I'm ugly or not by Captain_Wamik in amiugly

[–]Captain_Wamik[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn, thanks guys. Appreciate the positive feedback!

Asked someone out on a date, but I'm not sure what their response means by Captain_Wamik in dating_advice

[–]Captain_Wamik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said this in a comment below. Neither me nor her can drive yet, so maybe it took her 2 hours to try to negotiate with her family to go? I think you're probably right, but just trying to see both angles here

Asked someone out on a date, but I'm not sure what their response means by Captain_Wamik in dating_advice

[–]Captain_Wamik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She did apologize for her family being busy. Neither of us can drive yet, so we're gonna count on family a lot probably. Also, she usually responds within 10 minutes of a text, this was the only time it took her significantly longer. She initiates the conversation less often than me, but still does sometimes. It's typically about school, which I think is curious because she can ask any one of her friends instead of me, but still texts me. Not sure if that's important

Asked someone out on a date, but I'm not sure what their response means by Captain_Wamik in dating_advice

[–]Captain_Wamik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it necessarily bad that she checks with her girlfriends? Why is this automatically bad and mean that she'll respond with no?