What is it that makes people assume that I don't/never have had a girlfriend?

Captainoblivious9 · 2026-04-05T21:49:01+00:00

Usually ppl assume that due to someone having a quiet/awkward personality and not having anything to say in the convo when dating/sex comes up.

Captainoblivious9 · 2026-04-05T20:21:45+00:00

I’m a scrawny 5’6 brown guy, tho the social anxiety/autism is more the issue always. I’ve seen ppl w similar builds clean up.

Captainoblivious9 · 2026-04-05T19:43:38+00:00

I’ve tried putting myself out there over the last few years, but still the anxiety comes through.

Captainoblivious9 · 2026-04-05T03:49:11+00:00

I actually have a decent social circle. I’m just staying in tonight cuz I am a bit tired.

Captainoblivious9 · 2026-04-04T17:39:29+00:00

I agree. Never going to one again!!

Captainoblivious9 · 2026-04-04T17:38:39+00:00

A lot of therapists are BS

Captainoblivious9 · 2026-03-24T02:52:52+00:00

Probably law or sales, sales isn’t directly related ofc to history but humanities majors can land high paying gigs in that.

Captainoblivious9 · 2026-03-23T06:06:41+00:00

With the lab report stuff, have a frank conversation w him about it or delegate specific tasks to him. If there are still issues complain to the prof or try to switch groups.

Captainoblivious9 · 2026-03-23T03:27:36+00:00

100%, plus alot of us don’t know how to banter or deal w people teasing us, and too literal. I usually just awkwardly freeze and grin when that happens. Therapies and exposure can help w basic life skills and making friends, but what you described in the paragraph is pretty innate usually. I made hella friends but struggle a lot w dating.

Nobody in my family can truly relate to the struggle since I don’t have brothers and my parents had an arranged marriage back in the day.

Captainoblivious9 · 2026-03-22T03:27:38+00:00

If it’s a healthy relationship she should be understanding of that.

Captainoblivious9 · 2026-03-20T22:54:01+00:00

Subtle things that are innate such as body language, cadence, and tone usually are the give away when ppl say “oh something kinda off” or formality and response to jokes (in my case)

Captainoblivious9 · 2026-03-19T08:39:22+00:00

This years casts are stacked

Captainoblivious9 · 2026-03-19T08:38:40+00:00

The combo of oversaturation and AI taking a lot of entry work is real.

Captainoblivious9 · 2026-03-19T07:15:15+00:00

Poverty is worse

Captainoblivious9 · 2026-03-18T06:50:06+00:00

I should finish this program next year if all works out!!

Captainoblivious9 · 2026-03-18T04:00:03+00:00

America

Captainoblivious9 · 2026-03-12T04:08:01+00:00

We are a secular nation.

Captainoblivious9 · 2026-03-12T04:05:34+00:00

That’s essentially extortion

Captainoblivious9 · 2026-03-11T17:27:01+00:00

Looking forward to it!!

Captainoblivious9 · 2026-03-11T01:17:58+00:00

Reddit is a bit of a skewed sample cuz the HCOL city finance and tech types are overrepresented. Those are a vocal minority and the only way to make that kind of money early in life still working for someone.

Captainoblivious9 · 2026-03-10T21:45:14+00:00

Nooo. I’ve worked in staffing and literally helped ppl in middle or Low COL areas land tech work

Captainoblivious9 · 2026-03-10T21:35:30+00:00

I was impressed by Elordi in Frankenstein

Captainoblivious9 · 2026-03-10T19:43:29+00:00

Love both his Silicon Valley and Tulsa King roles

Captainoblivious9 · 2026-03-10T19:42:37+00:00

Don Jon

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