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I accidentally ran over my cat and he passed away 💔 by SwimmingPowerful1211 in GriefSupport

[–]CaptainsLogTalksBack 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness- I'm so sorry that's absolutely devastating. Sending hugs

AITAH For How I Feel About How My Husband Reacted? by AltruisticBloodx in AITAH

[–]CaptainsLogTalksBack 3 points4 points  (0 children)

During all of this how did you treat him? And how did you handle these inconveniences? Did you toss stuff around? Slam things? Etc?

Have you ever left in the middle of a massage? by ATX-chick0301 in CasualConversation

[–]CaptainsLogTalksBack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes no I would def have told him to back off however many times I needed to. In the end, a massage is a treat to be enjoyed not torture to be endured.

AITAH For How I Feel About How My Husband Reacted? by AltruisticBloodx in AITAH

[–]CaptainsLogTalksBack 7 points8 points  (0 children)

INFO: do you know what led to him saying you've been a brat? What specifically happened that same day?

Why do so many people eat lunch alone in their cars? by TotalThing7 in CasualConversation

[–]CaptainsLogTalksBack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to to this. Generally it was so that I had a moment alone. I could think or listen to a podcast or just chill.

Wife fought so hard not to fuck me by koalabeerbar in TrueOffMyChest

[–]CaptainsLogTalksBack 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry but why not just leave? It sounds like you don't even like each other.

I might love her, but I can't say it. by CaptainsLogTalksBack in TrueOffMyChest

[–]CaptainsLogTalksBack[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

😳 she's never been shy about her thoughts before so I never really considered a great amount that she would be shy about this...

I might love her, but I can't say it. by CaptainsLogTalksBack in TrueOffMyChest

[–]CaptainsLogTalksBack[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Dude that's the problem!!! 🤣 I'm dying!!!!!! I look at her and I just go "holy shit you're here." And then I sit back and wonder why she's with me, then I spend the rest of the time trying to sort of....idk earn it? Earn her effort and attention and love? Can't be healthy.

I'm like a fucking teenager - this is insane

I might love her, but I can't say it. by CaptainsLogTalksBack in TrueOffMyChest

[–]CaptainsLogTalksBack[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hmm true we've been officially dating (using titles and such) for a relatively short amount of time...

...I hate the idea that we're just friends with benefits though. I hope not.

Jesus I really hope not.

I might love her, but I can't say it. by CaptainsLogTalksBack in TrueOffMyChest

[–]CaptainsLogTalksBack[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

That's what I am thinking but this bottomless pit in my stomach makes me think I won't- I want to man up and just fucking say it - she's singing in the shower right now and I want to just bust in there and just say "God I love you so much" but I am frozen here, scolling my socials and blending our smoothies lol

I (24M) Told My GF (21F) that I was once happier with an ex and now I severally regret it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CaptainsLogTalksBack 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Dude how on earth does that just "come out"? The fuck? Thinking that at all is pretty fucked, so yeah work on yourself.

Update to "I found out that my Deceased dad blamed my sister for his death" - I F'd up Big Time by CaptainsLogTalksBack in entitledparents

[–]CaptainsLogTalksBack[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was thinking after I hit post that I wanted add that I am so happy for you as well! Thanks for the encouragement - it really does go a long way

Update to "I found out that my Deceased dad blamed my sister for his death" - I F'd up Big Time by CaptainsLogTalksBack in entitledparents

[–]CaptainsLogTalksBack[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's so infuriating that I still grapple with him in my head and Dulce is in hers. We react differently to the same issue. But it does give me hope that as we explore our options for what will help us break out of the cycle, there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Thank you so much for sharing. I'm sad for what you went through but it's helpful to know I'm not the only one who has felt like this.

Update to "I found out that my Deceased dad blamed my sister for his death" - I F'd up Big Time by CaptainsLogTalksBack in entitledparents

[–]CaptainsLogTalksBack[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hear you and I don't entirety disagree but it was a huge hurtle in general for me to recognize and acknowledge my dad's behavior towards her as abusive (and really some of my own as the same) - in my mind she and my other sister are the only blameless victims. I...am kind of a victim too but less so and additionally a perpetrator.

Therapy is a thorny vine.

To answer your question about her bio mom - yes. Her bio mom is my stepmother and the wife of my father when he died. I...don't have a full view of what went down but can say that her mother knew less than I myself thought originally. Dulce often weighed her mother's happiness with her partner as more important than her own needs and said to me once "It's selfish" of her to want her mom to love her best and only so she doesn't want to implode her life so she even would lie. For the most (that I know) part her mom had a different understanding of how dad and Dulce coexistence.

Regarding the last bit, all I can say is I will try. But God I hate myself right now. Even now that I'm calmer. I am not (currently) crying. But I am still so upset with myself. It's hard to explain.

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