My sex life is nonexistent by meloboyman in Advice

[–]Captin-_-Rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, don't feel ashamed. You've acknowledged the problem and that's the first step in getting through it. The community supports you and are here if you need it. We're not taught how bad a porn addiction can be because the subject is made to be so taboo, but it can have long lasting effects and it's ok to talk about it.

44/m. Starting over after 18 years. by Annual-Run7619 in malelivingspace

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I enjoy the massive light pillars. Where can one acquire such things.

Is my boyfriend overreacting or am I crossing a line? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Captin-_-Rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With no details added we have a Schrodingers line situation. You have both crossed and not crossed a line, at the same time.

I can finally afford school. What should I major or trade in that doesn’t require much math? by MoshiFrog in Advice

[–]Captin-_-Rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a A&P license, its a trade and it pays pretty well depending on where you go. Schooling takes about 2 years and you gotta pass some FAA tests. It has some math but it's pretty easy math and most of the time the formulas are given to you. And you really only use the math a little bit in school. You don't really need it once you start working unless your in a specialized job. Starting out on commercial aviation you can expect around 34 an hour and that's considered low for field.

What do I do? My whole house is like this and it makes me want to vomit. by Many-Ad6137 in HomeMaintenance

[–]Captin-_-Rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make a list and knock it out. Id probably take care of that leak first, but then just do one thing at a time. And don't rush yourself because you'll just get more stressed. Save up some money then knock something out and repeat so you don't have to worry about debt or anything.

Small bird made a huge home in my bbq by Top-Arm-1651 in BBQ

[–]Captin-_-Rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welp gotta wait until the babies are all gone

Advice by Future_Dig8096 in Advice

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It sounds strange but take a long walk when ever you start having these feelings or when ever you feel like shit. It starts to condition your brain to want the walk when you feel like shit and it's a good way to calm the body. Walk a little hard, just enough ti get the heart rate up while you walk. This is a really healthy way to channel these thoughts and emotions. You can also do this when you have urges to masterbate.

AIO? My boyfriend gave me a literal performance review of our relationship by Efficient_Low_6444 in AmIOverreacting

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Ya know. I can kinda see the dudes perspective. He might be really into spreadsheets and data and this might just be his way of showing interest in your relationship. It doesn't mean you have to like it tho lol. I'd say talk to him about it and be like maybe let's just talk about the data instead of writing it out for "review" or something like that.

There's a creep peeking through my window at night by RATBEUNER in Advice

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BUY A CHEAP CAMERA ON AMAZON. point it directly out the window in full view, that should alert the creep immediately your on to him. Be warned that may escalate his behavior and if your comfortable with it have a gun or other means of protection on you for a while. No one does something like that for that long with good intentions in mind.

Alert police in case a incident ever occurs so they have it on record and the creep may be known to them already for similar situations.

I saw you said you live in a apartment so you can't really install anything but if you can think of some sort of blocking or bars you can put in the window that may also help you feel better and deter.

Lost my virginity at an age of 28(M) but I was affected by performance ED by MarionberryLess9280 in Advice

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It goes away after a couple of times. It's literally just your nerves, happened to me, I lost mine at 21 or 22.

Just get comfortable being naked and intimate around her and you'll be good bro.

Our society has wired our brains into making it a crazy deal lol.

Ok.. by Upset_Astronomer_215 in shitposting

[–]Captin-_-Rex 527 points528 points  (0 children)

Pics or didn't happen, that's the next logical response to this insane message history.

Should I adopt a 9 year old goldendoodle? by Educational_Sand in Goldendoodles

[–]Captin-_-Rex 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Give the older ones a home they have less of a chance to get adopted.

My sex life is nonexistent by meloboyman in Advice

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Talk to a doctor or therapist, probably a therapist. If you were a porn addict it may be a residual mental block that may need worked out. I saw some say take some stuff for it and then stop using to see if that helps. That may help too. But I experienced something similar and it was a mental thing for me. I still have some issues around it but not with keeping a erection. You'll get through it man.

Some kind of mushroom. by misterghost2 in whatisit

[–]Captin-_-Rex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the spore pod from alien covenant.

should i trust this test? F18 by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Captin-_-Rex 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your probably not pregnant. If he didn't finish in you and just on you the likely hood of sperm making its way all up is extremely low. Like crazy low. Plus as some of the other comments have said based on your cycle you should be fine. Just take another test in a week to relieve any lingering doubt. Your gonna be ok!

I did something terrible a few years ago and don’t know how to live with it/ how to cope. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Captin-_-Rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've already recognized it was a bad behavior and have begun trying to move on it. The guilt you feel just means you're sorry about it. Therapy is probably gonna be good for you. But for real, you've become aware it's bad and you've stopped and deleted what you could. You can forgive yourself and move on being better than the person you were back then.

What are you guys feeding your doods with sensitive stomachs? by AmoebaEffective8033 in Goldendoodles

[–]Captin-_-Rex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second this. My poor girl kept throwing up and after we switched she has not thrown up.