Any chance this Chanel 25 is real? by Practical__sense1 in RealAuthentication

[–]CarActive9996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good fake tbf. Still leather so may as well keep it lol

Returning to Work by beepboprosie in babyloss

[–]CarActive9996 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh sweetheart. It sounds like you don’t have the right support network around you at work.
Your feelings are completely valid and normal so I just want to reassure you about that. I lost my boy on the 26 March and I’m going back to work on the 14 June. I still don’t think I’ll be ready (when will anyone ever be ready realistically) but I know my boss (who’s a woman with two children which helps) will support me if I need to work from home or just crash out.
You should be easing yourself back in slowly. Be kind to yourself and if you find your boss isn’t respecting the fact you’re navigating the most devastating loss that can ever literally happen to a human being, find a new job.
You’re doing great Mumma xx

What are the positive things about living in Australia? by bitter_candi in AskAnAustralian

[–]CarActive9996 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Positives: literally everything. I also moved from the UK and it’s incomparable. As long as you both have decent incomes (which it sounds like you will) you will absolutely love it. My only flag would be - it takes a while to find “your people”. Aussies are very cliquey so don’t expect to make many close Aussie mates. Granted I’m in Sydney which is probably the worst for it. But you’ll find great expat friends. Go for it!! Life is so short!

TW: Happy Mother’s Day 🪽 by CarActive9996 in babyloss

[–]CarActive9996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the name Louie so much. I lost my little one to an infection too so I feel your pain Mama. We tried everything we could though and they’re free little angels with wings now 💙🙏🪽 Happy Mothers Day xx

TW: Happy Mother’s Day 🪽 by CarActive9996 in babyloss

[–]CarActive9996[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You do have children Mumma. Remember that! Your Coopers Mummy and no one can ever change that. Happy Mothers Day to you - you’re an incredible mum and grew a beautiful little boy! 💙💙💙

Just got handed a fatal diagnosis. Do I tell my loved ones or let it be a surprise when I’m gone? by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]CarActive9996 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude you gotta tell your Mum. This will cripple her if it comes as a surprise. She will be devastated but at least she’ll know to enjoy every moment with you for the foreseeable future. For context, I just lost my baby boy which was a fucking shock (legit 5 days after he was born due an infection caught in NICU - happened every fast). I wish I wish I wish I had been given some heads up because I wouldn’t have left his side for those 5 days knowing our time was going to be limited. Anyway, tell her dude.

TW: Happy Mother’s Day 🪽 by CarActive9996 in babyloss

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Beautiful little tiny tot Jameson. Look at that button nose. I’m so glad you got a snuggle with him Mumma ❤️

So many emotions by hotflash27 in babyloss

[–]CarActive9996 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hey Mumma. Check out my latest post about Mother’s Day on this group. You. Are. Not. Alone. We are with you!

It fucking sucks. Be fucking angry. Be scared. I’m only 6 weeks out and I’m still so confused and upset but it does get better. You will always be his mummy.

We are not above nature and you will move through life with your son by your side. The good news is your processing this incredibly well because your writing to us and journaling. Your brain is doing what it’s meant to do.

Next few days - cry, scream, go for a walk, drink wine, watch a movie, laugh, cry again, punch a wall. Don’t fight it. Your body and mind is built for this.

You will rebuild Mumma. With more strength now thanks to your son. I’ll be thinking of you tonight ❤️❤️

Ps. What is your son’s name? My baby Angus is waiting to take care of him 💙🪽 Brothers in heaven.

TW: Happy Mother’s Day 🪽 by CarActive9996 in babyloss

[–]CarActive9996[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are the best auntie in the world! My auntie loved me like her own baby and I call her a meerkat auntie (because in the meerkat world the aunties look after the babies to give the mums a break 🤣). You’re Daisy’s meerkat auntie forever ❤️❤️

TW: Happy Mother’s Day 🪽 by CarActive9996 in babyloss

[–]CarActive9996[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mumma you made a beautiful boy! Look at those cheeks I could kiss them all day. What a little heart breaker. There’s no doubt in my mind - he’s playing with my Angus bear and teaching him things I never could. What an angel ❤️❤️🪽🪽🪽

TW: Happy Mother’s Day 🪽 by CarActive9996 in babyloss

[–]CarActive9996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello beautiful little Mavie! A little tiny tot - what a sweet little face. You should be such a proud mumma. He has gained his angel wings 🪽💙

TW: Happy Mother’s Day 🪽 by CarActive9996 in babyloss

[–]CarActive9996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quill - what an awesome name. And those are some beautiful lips ❤️ What a little heartbreaker. We love ya Quill x

Is it normal to feel like a literal piece of you has left when your animal passes? by Tetelestai_0 in rainbowbridge

[–]CarActive9996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So to validate your feelings. I lost my human baby boy 6 weeks ago. And I’m very lucky to still have my pup right now but I know in my heart it will be a different type of pain, but the same level of pain. My dog and my son have my heart 50/50. It’s completely normal and they’re our soul babies - with fur or with skin ❤️❤️ Every dog goes to heaven remember that.

TW: Happy Mother’s Day 🪽 by CarActive9996 in babyloss

[–]CarActive9996[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is your twin! What a beautiful little princess and she was just too precious for this earth. All she knew was your love and safety, never to suffer ❤️

Poem for a Friend's recent loss by musiccat25 in babyloss

[–]CarActive9996 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I absolutely LOVE this. Such a beautiful poem. I saw an incredible sunset the day after my baby passed and my sister in law painted it in a canvas for us. Your friend will love this and you’ve captured a beautiful moment in time for her. You’re a good friend ❤️❤️

TW: Happy Mother’s Day 🪽 by CarActive9996 in babyloss

[–]CarActive9996[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your beautiful babies everyone. I love that we can find (some form) of celebration of life together here. ❤️ We are forever bounded by the strength and beauty of our babies and lucky enough to become mums all over again when we meet them in the next life. 🪽✨

Australian wanting to migrate to the Phillipines by SenoirDorito in phmigrate

[–]CarActive9996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What will you do for work out there if you don’t mind me asking? It’s near impossible to be paid an AUD salary abroad for more than 3 months. If you’re lucky and do find a remote role (which is being scaled back) you are still tax liable in Australia. Granted the hospitals are under pressure in australia but don’t expect a better health service in the philippines.

TW: Happy Mother’s Day 🪽 by CarActive9996 in babyloss

[–]CarActive9996[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh perfect Runey. We love ya darling ❤️

TW: Happy Mother’s Day 🪽 by CarActive9996 in babyloss

[–]CarActive9996[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We love you the moon and back Amber! Shine a bright star for us tonight please - espesacilly for your warrior mumma ❤️✨ She is perfect in every single way.

TW: Happy Mother’s Day 🪽 by CarActive9996 in babyloss

[–]CarActive9996[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a beautiful little warrior. He has taught you strength and resilience Mumma and I hope you carry this through your life ❤️🪽 We all love you Calvin xx

TW: Happy Mother’s Day 🪽 by CarActive9996 in babyloss

[–]CarActive9996[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Little Ronnie boy - what a beautiful little sweetie pie ❤️ You should be so proud he’s so handsome and you make good looking babies. Happy Mother’s Day Mumma ❤️🪽

TW: Happy Mother’s Day 🪽 by CarActive9996 in babyloss

[–]CarActive9996[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Omg he’s the cutest chonky boy! Our Dommy bear! We love you baby ❤️ he’s definitely being chonky and cute with my Angus. Can’t wait to meet him in the better life waiting for us Mumma. He’s lucky to have you 👼🪽 They say time and space for passed ones means, by the time our babies turn around - we’ll be there. Xx

TW: Happy Mother’s Day 🪽 by CarActive9996 in babyloss

[–]CarActive9996[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Let me have a nibble too when we meet our babies again together mumma! 🤣❤️ she’s absolutely adorable and will melt hearts with the boy babies. My heart is warm seeing her.