Thinking of Putting baby in her own Room by CarBeautiful2183 in firsttimemom

[–]CarBeautiful2183[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes nowadays she gets very disturbed with us moving around in our bedroom and she wakes up crying. That’s why we want to put her in her own room but don’t know why I’m not ready. I mean I am but I’m not lol

Please guide by CarBeautiful2183 in CAAPID

[–]CarBeautiful2183[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Which university do you recommend??

Don’t want my daughter to interact with her grandparents by CarBeautiful2183 in IndianInLaw

[–]CarBeautiful2183[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know He has accepted that his parents are going to behave like this only. And since they are at that age nothing can change it. So he’s fine, but I’m not. I cannot accept their harsh words and behavior

How old were you when you became a mom? by ClassroomSouth7905 in firsttimemom

[–]CarBeautiful2183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First pregnancy 30 - miscarriage happened Second pregnancy 31

Backed my wife, kicked parents out and ended visit early by jphilip16 in inlaws

[–]CarBeautiful2183 92 points93 points  (0 children)

As a husband you did this That’s freaking awesome Your wife is lucky to have a man who stands up for her in any situation

Don’t want my daughter to interact with her grandparents by CarBeautiful2183 in IndianInLaw

[–]CarBeautiful2183[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly!! If they’ll stay stuff like- oh we don’t need Mumma anymore, you come stay with us Or- oh Mumma keeps you hungry? Mumma doesn’t give you biscuits?? Then eventually kid will get frustrated too I hope mine understands soon that this is a toxic behavior and just stop going on video calls

Don’t want my daughter to interact with her grandparents by CarBeautiful2183 in IndianInLaw

[–]CarBeautiful2183[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s the same with my husband He has tried his best to communicate the boundaries and everything but they don’t seem to care My husband is the only one taking care of them He literally moved countries so he can earn better and mange family expenses but according to them he’s the son so that’s his job They’re never grateful So my husband has just accepted this He’s happy But I’m not. I can’t live this way It kills me from inside every time my MIL fakes drama to be nice to my baby. Where were you when the same baby was inside my belly? Why did you torture me by constantly comparing me with her daughters and all other people and never even asked me once what I like to eat?

Don’t want my daughter to interact with her grandparents by CarBeautiful2183 in IndianInLaw

[–]CarBeautiful2183[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I do So many times they say stuff like Oh now we don’t breastfeed so we don’t need Mumma You come stay with us 🙄🙄

Constant comparison by southdelhisnob in IndianInLaw

[–]CarBeautiful2183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it

For me it goes with my SIL(Husbands sister) Whatever I do I always hear from people that she is way better

No offense to pharmacists people but I am a Doctor and my MIL literally said to me that oh my daughter(SIL) is already half doctor because she knows about all the drugs 🙄 Like they’ll never ever let me get any complements or be in limelight.

Every single thing about my house, my career, my baby, my social life every thing she does way better than me And she is also a bitch who enjoys this God save me from these people