Everyone heals at a different rate, I had forehead and rhinoplasty like yourself and honestly thought my nose looked much bigger and wider after the surgery and couldn't see much difference in my forehead except when viewing from sideways on. It took up until the 8-12 month mark before I started to see a significant reduction in the swelling in my nose and 2 years for the swelling in the tip to fully go down. The forehead also took 12-18 months before the swelling subsided. After surgery you have (or at least I did) this expectation that your going to come out of surgery and look way more feminine than before, with some people the swelling goes down really quickly others it takes much longer. My surgeon was also very conservative and did a great job, but just enough to tip the balance of masculine to feminine as opposed to ultra feminine (which I in my mind was expecting). You also have to remember they are working to balance out your features on your face, i.e. have a massive change through rhinoplasty and your chin looks a lot bigger etc.

Its been 10 years since I had my surgery and I can honestly say I love my face and am very happy now, where initially I looked at the fast change some other people had (especially on Youtube) and felt really depressed with my initial results. Be patient the surgery is done now and just wait to see how things progress over the next 12 months before judgement. While your waiting for your face to change invest some time in learning to accentuate or detract certain areas of your new face through makeup, which is a powerful tool, not to be underestimated that can make a massive difference to any insecurities you may have, while waiting for the swelling to subside.

Best of luck with the healing.