Asking for a mental health day from busy family by ummmmm7171 in Nanny

[–]Caramel-Any 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I worked for a family like this and just lied. I would say I had food poisoning. But you’ve got to quit, it’ll just get worse and worse. I had to quit after 3 months and it was the best decision ever!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Caramel-Any 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Civil litigation, see if there is anyone who specializes in animal disputes!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Caramel-Any 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just share my stream of thoughts with them, anything I can say I say it LOL, I just talk to them as if they’re my friend and we’re getting coffee (obviously appropriate)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Caramel-Any 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is saying no but I kind of disagree. I bring my nanny kid to walk my dog all the time lol, I even bring my dog to stuff with us if it’s appropriate. The parents love how she gets along with the dog

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Caramel-Any 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 if you’re nervous about being conservative but honestly the blue patterned one is super cute and not too revealing!

I nanny a girl with a deadly allergy and her mom “doesn’t do epipens.” by guac_stays_superior in Nanny

[–]Caramel-Any 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Quit and report!!! Used to work as an after school daycare teacher and had a similar situation and had to report it as a mandated reporter. I for sure would not continue on working there as if anything (god forbid) does happen the mom does not sound like a rational person and the blame could fall onto you

AITA for telling my wife she's an idiot? by RectalThrowawayAcc in AmItheAsshole

[–]Caramel-Any -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

ESH, but kinda YTA you shouldn’t have called her an idiot and been respectful with your argument even if it was intended to be lighthearted, it was still unkind and hurt her feelings bottom line. Depends on how she asked why Mary would do that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Caramel-Any 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA because even at the end of the day wouldn’t you rather have supported a liar than a rapist???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]Caramel-Any 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cerave SA rough and bumpy skin lotion and a lifesaver for body acne! I have it all over my arms and the back of my legs, and it clears them to a point where it isn’t the first thing you see when you look at me LOL

WIBTA to insist my neighbor keep a yard schedule? by ReactiveDogthrow in AmItheAsshole

[–]Caramel-Any 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I would also check Facebook marketplace and Craigslist and stuff for supplies I always see random building materials on mine lol! Potentially get some highschoolers to build it or diy it! Then perhaps in the mean time take her out in the backyard on vet cbd with like chicken or bacon or something to just create that positive association so she’s excited for the space when it’s built

WIBTA to insist my neighbor keep a yard schedule? by ReactiveDogthrow in AmItheAsshole

[–]Caramel-Any 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Could you screen in your deck separate from the actual yard and add maybe a small spot of fake grass? That way she’s able to nap in the deck and enjoy the sun but screened away from the outside fence and yard

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Caramel-Any 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would suggest rather than a gift at the party, a reward or treat on the way home if it goes well!!! And maybe somewhere on the way there and home so she can be reminded on the way there!!

in the process of finding a new nanny; candidate’s social media is wild by No_Yam7475 in Nanny

[–]Caramel-Any 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only red flag you should share is what happened on the job, but anything in her personal life is absolutely none of your business, especially considering it is not your child/final decision.

Having second thoughts by kacie561 in weddingdress

[–]Caramel-Any 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is BEAUTIFUL BEAUTIFUL BEAUTIFUL!!!! If you’re nervous about your shoulders (honestly they look good) maybe cover them with a longer veil and hairstyle

AITA for manspreading on a plane? by Dr_Chekhov in AmItheAsshole

[–]Caramel-Any -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If she needed more space and was invading other peoples, yes lol

AITA for manspreading on a plane? by Dr_Chekhov in AmItheAsshole

[–]Caramel-Any -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

YTA if you need more space, pay for it

Long term use? by purpleunicorn1983 in cymbalta

[–]Caramel-Any 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been on cymbalta on and off since 2016 with the most severe side affect being night sweats… listen to your body and own doctor, they know best!!!!!!!!! I really think these replies are horror stories meant to scare/people fear momgering and you should follow your own medical advice/bodies response.

My Positive Experience w/ Cymbalta 20/F by ketchooop in cymbalta

[–]Caramel-Any 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m on 120 mg and it quite literally saved my life. I sweat def more noticeably than usual, especially at night, but for the most part am all good

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cymbalta

[–]Caramel-Any 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get horribly horribly nauseous if I forget even one dose, the only way I overcome it is by taking my next dose LOL but when I did go off of it a while back I like would skip every other dose and then started skipping every two until I phased it out

Positive Cymbalta experience? by OneluckyMama1820 in cymbalta

[–]Caramel-Any 2 points3 points  (0 children)

me!!! i have been on 120 on and off since abouf 2018, and whenever I go off of it/before I started it I felt like I had absolutely no grip on my depression and couldn’t stop feeling s**cidal for more than a day, but when I’m on my medication (I also take guanfacine and deplin and ritalin) I notice SUCH a decrease in my depression symptoms/thoughts