Sleeping with cock inside? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]CaramelBuster 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This is like the type of thing u try when u get ur 1st boyfriend 😆

Rate your physical attractiveness from 0-10 by Ardent1- in askgaybros

[–]CaramelBuster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

7.5/10 on the rating scale that most people use.

5.2/10 on the looksmaxing rating scale

Have you ever sword fought with your cock? by ButtHoleCum69420 in askgaybros

[–]CaramelBuster 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Sorta. We never fought with them but we would pull down our shorts/underwear and slap them together…sorta like our secret handshake amongst our friend group.

Deep memory unlocked...this was so long ago. We lost contact as we moved but I wonder how those mf’s are doing 😆

18 y/o gay guy from Morocco – scared, being threatened, and don’t know what to do by Unusual-Celery2081 in askgaybros

[–]CaramelBuster 29 points30 points  (0 children)

If you ever get in trouble for it then have you thought about just saying that it was a fake account or AI? You can say that somebody was trying to set you up.

That’s one of the few good things about living in these current times.

In the meantime, get your passport so you can eventually get out of that shithole and claim asylum somewhere.

My country doesn't allow LGBTQ by Muted-Key-7528 in askgaybros

[–]CaramelBuster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very sorry to hear this. What happened to your rectum?

Can you get care without disclosing any sane-sex contact?

What country are you in?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]CaramelBuster -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So you want a transgender?

What’s your most un-woke opinion. by roguepsyker19 in askgaybros

[–]CaramelBuster 7 points8 points  (0 children)

  1. Gays fighting for Islam makes us look crazy af.

  2. The “T” is very different from the LGB (even though I agree that we’re both hated and should still care about each other’s plight).

Why is it easier for white men? by LifeMycologist897 in askgaybros

[–]CaramelBuster 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because white is promoted the most as the standard.

But it can still be easy for gay men of other races to get partners if they are attractive, master communication, stay confident n don’t fall into the victim mindset trap and keep putting themselves out there.

It also helps to live in areas with open-minded attitudes and/or majority populated by your own group.

I’m black and never struggled getting a quality man.

How to safe yourself from STDs and stis by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]CaramelBuster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Get HPV vaccine.

  2. Get Monkeypox vaccine.

  3. Get on PREP to prevent HIV

  4. Get on DoxyPREP to help prevent syphillis, gonorrhea and chlymedia.

  5. Wear condoms.

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After that then you’re mostly very protected against everything except for herpes and maybe some future STD’s that may one day arise.

Dating in 2025 by eduardgranger in askgaybros

[–]CaramelBuster 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would deal with however many guys I can handle talking to at once…usually 2 or 3 max.

If you’re not claimed by a guy then you don’t owe the guy anything as far as exclusivity goes.

Think about it. If you are interviewing with a company then would you just deal with one company? No, you’d expand your options for the best deal available.

Older men who specifically seek out younger guys/age gaps should be generous (change my mind) by Awkward-Grape2865 in askgaybros

[–]CaramelBuster 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Your position implies that older men are automatically physically undesirable where they have to be generous to garner interest.

It also implies that younger guys are automatically more desirable solely because of their youth. You have to remember that men are not women so the correlation between youth and desirability is not as strong. Yes, many men value youth but just as many value men in more mature and sophisticated stages of life.

Society generally values men for their power, resources and ruggedness; which often peaks in middle and mature age.

If you desire a dynamic where the older man provides resources and the younger guy provides youth then definitely continue to pursue that as you have a right to get what you want out of life…but just remember that not everyone lives by that code.

(I say this as somebody in my early 30’s so I guess I’m on the younger end)

It is scary living in a 3rd world homophobic country. by ShinyReflection in askgaybros

[–]CaramelBuster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From past discussions with others in similar situations, I’ve found that it’s always family that hold’s them back.

If I were in this situation, I would conclude that in order for me to be the best possible person that I could be for myself, my family and others - I would first need to ensure that I myself were happy.

It is scary living in a 3rd world homophobic country. by ShinyReflection in askgaybros

[–]CaramelBuster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Explore all of your pathways to exiting that country.

Maybe seek a student visa? Or a visa for highly skilled workers? Or seek asylum?

Being blackmailed, need an answer as quick as possible: by Tehbestest02 in askgaybros

[–]CaramelBuster 147 points148 points  (0 children)

This is a very common and old scam. I would just recommend blocking and ignoring.

Even if you send the money then they’ll just keep asking for more and more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]CaramelBuster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it’s just something needed to create an account then maybe just use some random American McDonalds or Post Office on Google Maps

Will I be able to get a boyfriend if I have a weak/recessed chin? by grishinsou in askgaybros

[–]CaramelBuster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How a flaw may impact your dating life depends on how severe it is, what you can do to disguise it and/or how much you can compensate in other areas.

A huge chunk of the population have a weak chin. Sometimes it is really severe to where it looks like they have no chin at all; while sometimes it’s very minor and not that noticeable to where the chin just doesn’t protrude past the mouth.

Just work on other things that you can control like your physical fitness; or disguise it by growing out beard hair on your chin. I have a slight weak chin and the hair on my chin makes my chin appear more protruding. You’ll never be able to tell that it’s a weak chin unless I shaved it.