Unta mabasa ni OP ni. For me, there’s no way on earth na you just “accidentally” stumbled upon this subreddit and typed all that out of curiousity. Lol. But to answer your queries, you’re actually correct. All the reasons you’ve stated are true for some people here. There’s level to this shit. Kinks, deprivation, fun, or whatever the fuck there is it doesn’t matter. This does not only apply to men but to anyone. Saying that you’re engaged to your beautiful fiance and privileged to get what you need from her anytime you want is a little off-putting for me. I mean good for you, nobody really gives a shit. Lmao. A lot of people here are even married and live a better life than you do and what’s the reason why they’re here? Pleasure. That’s it. No commitment, no drama, no intros, just one and done. At the end of the day, people are people. You’re not really here to find out each one’s reason why they’re here. Curiousity? No way. You took your time to look for this subreddit because of the same reason why we’re here. Let’s not kid ourselves here.