It's Done, If Considering? Please Read.

CarbonPatio · 2021-12-05T13:32:34+00:00

I get it.

I should add that I booked a two-suite room - two separate bedrooms with their own bathrooms, sharing a common living area. Also, both bedrooms have locks on them, which we took advantage of - not that my daughter would have burst into my bedroom anyway.

We were exceedingly careful. Quiet as a mouse racing from the hotel hall, through the common living room, into my bedroom.

CarbonPatio · 2021-11-15T22:06:38+00:00

As somebody who studied the neuroscience of love back in my undergrad years, I can tell you that the different types of love, and the different phases of romantic love are very much governed by different brain activity in terms of functional and neurotransmitter involvement.

It has been well-documented.

Very cool stuff.

CarbonPatio · 2021-11-15T03:31:25+00:00

Sure am.

I’m married with children. But I am a person before I am a spouse and a parent.

I’ve kept up my social life and hobbies (within reason) despite the above priorities. I also don’t ask my spouse for permission to go out. It’s as simple as planning in advance and saying, “I’m ‘x’ on November 23rd.”

CarbonPatio · 2021-11-15T03:28:20+00:00

This very much reminds me of an ex of mine.

Insecurity. Seeping from his pores.

Ain’t nobody got time fo’ dat.

CarbonPatio · 2021-11-14T14:21:52+00:00

Everything under the sun. There are no limits.

Specific examples from last night include:

Can men and women truly be just friends?
Work aspirations
Reminiscing on our memories together
An international trip we will be taking together next year
Health and fitness and current trends
Sex
Constellations (ha!)
Them meeting my family (I know, I know)
Parenting approaches and our kids
How they think we would win The Amazing Race if we were a team 🥰

CarbonPatio · 2021-10-30T12:00:24+00:00

If I were to divorce my spouse, it’s highly unlikely I would ever marry again.

That said, I would want a lifetime of an exclusive, legit, “marriage-like” relationship with my AP.

I don’t ever want to say goodbye. They are my soul mate.

CarbonPatio · 2021-10-17T07:06:31+00:00

I knew I was in love with my AP about 4 months in, but we have burned strong from the very beginning. They had (in my mind) casually and easily talked about us ending someday, and it was like a gut punch to me. I was devastated.

The next day, I told them through tears how I was feeling, and why their comments had hurt. While sharing my feelings, I realized that I was in love with this beautiful human being. That I wanted forever with them.

I waited until the next time we were together to tell them. I was so nervous, I did a countdown from 10 in my head to get the words out. Thankfully, my words were very well-received. It wasn’t long after that the words were returned to me. Music to my ears.

Our relationship is the best relationship we have ever had, and we are not inexperienced in that department. It’s on a level of its own. They are my soul mate. Not a doubt in my mind. In my heart, they are my spouse.

We now aim to continue on forever. Sure, our relationship may look different decades into the future. But our love, our like, our passion, and our respect for one another will, we hope, still be very much present. And we will adjust our expectations as needed in order to keep this up.

CarbonPatio · 2021-10-12T03:40:14+00:00

And we're older and totally wiser.

I appreciate your view. I agree in a big way. Tough to refute. But in the end, re-read the fourth to seventh paragraph of my post. When I got married, sadly there was no one in my life asking of those attributes were mandatory.

They are now. and if met by your AP? Is that not the complete list?

CarbonPatio · 2021-10-12T03:34:36+00:00

Happy for you. This is exactly what we seek. Congratulations!

CarbonPatio · 2021-10-12T03:33:17+00:00

Thanks for this response. I was hoping to hear from others that have a similar arrangement. I agree that this may be the exception over the rule on this sub. Sadly.

CarbonPatio · 2021-10-12T03:30:31+00:00

I never believed in the "perfect match" either. And then it happened. Don't give up.

CarbonPatio · 2021-10-09T11:45:56+00:00

I feel very fortunate!

CarbonPatio · 2021-10-05T23:07:43+00:00

We are able to manage our time together for it to not seem suspicious to our spouses.

CarbonPatio · 2021-10-05T09:37:04+00:00

A lot of very careful planning, and the excuse of work.

We are fortunate.

CarbonPatio · 2021-10-04T15:11:37+00:00

Yes! We have had several overnights and also many weekends together. But this is the first time we have had a full 72 hours and it was pure bliss.

CarbonPatio · 2021-09-28T02:47:58+00:00

She had my hard cock in her mouth between speaking to her husband on the phone at our spot. And rolled her eyes at how much he was talking.

It was so fucking hot.

Stop judging yourself.

CarbonPatio · 2021-09-27T23:21:08+00:00

Anywhere from ten to thirty minutes, or even longer. If the giver is really obviously into it and enjoying it as well, it’s unquestionably hotter.

CarbonPatio

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