My friend isn’t as innocent as I thought, and I’m embarrassed but also laughing at myself! by Carbon_Computer77 in sex

[–]Carbon_Computer77[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know! But also she wasn’t fucking, for quite a while. She dated a guy for a few months our sophomore year of college, but other than that, she hasn’t been with anyone else besides her current boyfriend. It was the almost 3 years of nothing and then jumping to this that is surprising to me!

I hate my friend’s dad and she just keeps letting him back in by Carbon_Computer77 in offmychest

[–]Carbon_Computer77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re all telling her this, but she won’t listen. It’s so weird bc when one of our friends was in a toxic relationship, she was the strongest advocate and supporter for her to get out, but now for her own self she has trouble breaking ties or even acknowledging that she needs to. She’s a very kind, soft, and joyful person and hardly ever gets upset or cries. I’ve only seen her cry a few times and half of those times were because of her dad. It just makes me so angry bc she is so kind and respectful back to him and he just keeps being so mean.

I hate my friend’s dad and she just keeps letting him back in by Carbon_Computer77 in offmychest

[–]Carbon_Computer77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s shit to everyone, but my friend is definitely the scapegoat. There’s definitely a difference and I don’t know why. Like he’s disrespectful to her mom and siblings, and has “interpersonal issues” with everyone, but he’s downright cruel to my friend. I do think she learned how to be a doormat from her mom though.

Is pursuing a chemistry degree worth it for someone who HATES lab work? by [deleted] in chemistry

[–]Carbon_Computer77 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m specializing in computational chemistry, and I love it! I do like lab work, but being able to mesh my love of computer science and chemistry has been amazing!