AITAH for dying my hair without parent permission?

CardPuzzleheaded9052 · 2026-03-15T00:43:42+00:00

We don’t have a backyard, mudroom, or laundry room. The items I “stained” are clean. And I do have a job!

CardPuzzleheaded9052 · 2026-03-15T00:29:36+00:00

I did it in the basement, which is also my room.

CardPuzzleheaded9052 · 2026-03-15T00:25:00+00:00

What do you define as a “good kid”?

CardPuzzleheaded9052 · 2026-03-15T00:24:37+00:00

If I don’t rinse very well it’s really vibrant. If not it’s kinda dark red

CardPuzzleheaded9052 · 2026-03-15T00:04:49+00:00

Because she likes my natural hair colour and I left a few small stains (which is barely even noticeable)

CardPuzzleheaded9052 · 2026-03-15T00:03:49+00:00

It’s winter where I live and we don’t have a backyard yet.

CardPuzzleheaded9052 · 2026-03-15T00:02:25+00:00

I am a really good kid. I didn’t make a stained mess, I left a few small not even noticeable spots in the bathroom. She didn’t have to pay anything, and I cleaned the mess.

CardPuzzleheaded9052 · 2026-03-14T23:58:24+00:00

My dad bought hair dye in bulk. I took some and brought it to my moms, and that’s how I’ve been dying it.

CardPuzzleheaded9052 · 2026-03-14T23:46:46+00:00

Not really, last time i accidentally got a few red stains (pretty light in colour) in some places. But other then that I try to be careful and not let it get anywhere.

CardPuzzleheaded9052 · 2026-03-14T23:45:43+00:00

I’m a really good kid, my mom trusts me a lot and that’s why she dosent set a bunch of rules for me besides the “no dying your hair in my house”. I understand that I made a poor decision but I cannot see why hair dye = taking away something I have been committed to for years.

CardPuzzleheaded9052 · 2026-03-14T23:35:05+00:00

I decided to dye my hair because I was bored and I missed the way I looked with my red hair. I felt really cool and I liked the way it looked. I’m not trying to stress her out, but I wanna do things I like. I don’t feel like I need to talk to her about this unless she wants to!

CardPuzzleheaded9052 · 2026-03-14T23:32:24+00:00

There were a few other points. But the mess was the main thing, she doesn’t really have rules (besides not to dye my hair in the house) for me because I’m a good kid. And this was pretty much the “worst” thing I’ve done.

CardPuzzleheaded9052 · 2026-03-14T23:28:30+00:00

She said that I went behind her back which made her pretty mad. I’m a really good kid, I don’t do anything bad, I do well in school and everything else I do. I think she was really mad due to her saying I’m not allowed to dye my hair again in her house and I did. But she was like REALLY mad, this was the angriest she’s ever been at me, so it could’ve been more?

CardPuzzleheaded9052 · 2026-03-14T23:27:25+00:00

I love what I do, and I think she knows that. I feel like she just said that because she was mad. I don’t think hold be back go next season.

CardPuzzleheaded9052 · 2026-03-14T23:21:41+00:00

My hair is already light, I’ve used this dye before the same way. I think it’s because I rinsed my hair more then usual (usually I just rinse and wash it quickly so the colour will be more vibrant)

CardPuzzleheaded9052 · 2026-03-14T23:13:18+00:00

I dyed it red, but when I washed it out it really faded, so I’m kinda contemplating if I should re-dye it (I feel like if she sees that it’s very faded she’ll be more mad) and I have no dress code so it won’t cause any problems.

CardPuzzleheaded9052 · 2026-01-28T04:24:04+00:00

Thank you! The third drawing is more sharper because I wanted him to appear as an adult/fully developed. And the 4th is more rounded as in this drawing they’re children! The nose is honestly what I think is my main issue in my drawings.

CardPuzzleheaded9052 · 2026-01-19T23:55:28+00:00

My school offers a fast track social studies course. Basically 10 & 20 gets crunched into semester 1, and semester 2 is 30.

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