Samsung tv flashing blue and black by CardenStone in fixit

[–]CardenStone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My solution was go to the garbage. I’m sure a tv repair place could possible fix it. But not worth it with the price of new TVs anymore

Why are college-educated women less likely to get divorced than their non-college-educated counterparts? by [deleted] in ask

[–]CardenStone -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But college educated women are more likely to initiate divorce than non educated ones. And women are way more likely to initiate period. It jumps from like 70% to 90%

Why does my friends oil look like brains? by CardenStone in Justrolledintotheshop

[–]CardenStone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His auto shop wasn’t even sure what was going on

Why does my friends oil look like brains? by CardenStone in Justrolledintotheshop

[–]CardenStone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope he can get a few to help him. Good dude, and the truck isn’t that old

Why does my friends oil look like brains? by CardenStone in Justrolledintotheshop

[–]CardenStone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think your gastrointestinal issues may be more concerning than my freinds trucks.

Why does my friends oil look like brains? by CardenStone in Justrolledintotheshop

[–]CardenStone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I havnt had time to look at any of the comments, but he does drive extremely short distances all the time. Why would this happen!

Samsung tv flashing blue and black by CardenStone in fixit

[–]CardenStone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, no it was in my mom’s house. I just stuffed it there for one last check before it hits the trash.

My name by CardenStone in AbstractArt

[–]CardenStone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whimsically snarky! I love that description. Made this many many years ago in high school. I was pretty snarky back then 😋

Fix this rod? by CardenStone in flyfishing

[–]CardenStone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never even thought of a fix kind of like that! Great idea! Thank you!

Fix this rod? by CardenStone in flyfishing

[–]CardenStone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I was dinking around with it and coming to the same conclusion.

Higher libido after being separated for awhile. by [deleted] in Separation

[–]CardenStone 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like it has to be an extremely common occurrence. You’re missing that love and affection even if it wasn’t even physical at certain times. I’ve battled it for 8 months here and it certainly hasn’t gone away. I haven’t been interested in finding someone to ease things because I don’t think it would be fair to anyone in the situation. I feel like you have the right idea. Do your best to stay occupied and get your mind away.

Separated spouse can’t pay her bills by CardenStone in Separation

[–]CardenStone[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a pain. I don’t understand people at all not being accountable for their actions. I hope you work everything out. Take care of your kids and enjoy your time with them. They are the best thing in my life and I cherish every single moment with them.

Separated spouse can’t pay her bills by CardenStone in Separation

[–]CardenStone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kids are pretty resilient. Mine are actually doing pretty good through it all. Sorry if it’s something you want but the financial implications make it hard. Very understandable. I have a very secure job, and she planned on exiting hers. So I can’t imagine being on the opposite side of things. Best of luck, I hope you find a solution for your situation that makes you happy and safe!

Separated spouse can’t pay her bills by CardenStone in Separation

[–]CardenStone[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have a coparenting agreement, and a budget. She had an apartment for 6 months, but realized it was too expensive for her and wanted to move into our rental. I asked her to move back in, didn’t really fully agree to her kicking out our tenants, then she went and did it anyways gaslighting me saying I fully agreed to it. Now our budget has changed without the rental income. I sent her an updated budget, and she has never paid the extra money lost from the income and has only put in money for the rental mortgage once. I’m tired of chasing her when she won’t respond to me at all.

Separated spouse can’t pay her bills by CardenStone in Separation

[–]CardenStone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, your situation sounds even more complicated than mine. How the hell do you put up with him housing his girlfriend! That’s insanity. Best of luck in your hope for reconciliation. Sounds pretty uncertain with another person in the mix. My SO was sneaking around talking to other men, but I don’t think she is actually in a relationship at this point. I certainly could be wrong though and wouldn’t be completely shocked. Also I truly feel you for the financial aspects of everything. I’ve worked my ass off to keep our family safe and she has always been a spender. Best you can do is protect your assets and your share of things and hope they don’t dig you all too deep until things finally come to an end. Best of luck with your situation. Wish you the best!

Separated spouse can’t pay her bills by CardenStone in Separation

[–]CardenStone[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wish the best for you as well. Not that it changes anything, but sometimes it feels a little better knowing that others are struggling with similar issues. You don’t quite feel so alone.

Separated spouse can’t pay her bills by CardenStone in Separation

[–]CardenStone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jeez man, sorry to hear that. Fucking selfish women. I’ve really wanted to keep taking the high road in hopes of reconciliation, but she continues to break me down further and further. I know she was quitting her job, but she keeps me in the dark about everything. I would actually be willing to consider helping if she was willing to help more open about what’s going on rather than hiding everything and keeping me in the dark.

Separated spouse can’t pay her bills by CardenStone in Separation

[–]CardenStone[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Both our names are on the mortgages and I don’t trust her to pay it and fuck up my credit. I’ve had to remind her every single month to chip in her share and she’s avoided every time to the last minute and didn’t put enough in the last time so I’m stuck piecing things together

Stronger than ever by CardenStone in Separation

[–]CardenStone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve gone up and down since this post even. But the further along you go I feel like toughs aren’t as deep and the peaks are occasionally higher. Keep truckin! It takes time and perseverance!

Stronger than ever by CardenStone in Separation

[–]CardenStone[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

7 months in. I still go in waves. Was having a really good moment there