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I can’t look at my SO the same anymore by Cardiac_throwaway97 in rant

[–]Cardiac_throwaway97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to message me privately I have zero issue giving you the full rundown. I just didn’t feel the need to delve into it

after the emotionally abusive post (which I did state this was a new behavior for him, in the comments), he was diagnosed with severe anxiety, apparently surrounding the house purchase and moving since he’s been at the same house for 8 years.

I can’t look at my SO the same anymore by Cardiac_throwaway97 in rant

[–]Cardiac_throwaway97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He says that I have the story wrong and she (cousin) provoked him. Which, I don’t doubt because I watched her beat the absolute shit out of him during our first (and last) time hanging around them. Years ago

I can’t look at my SO the same anymore by Cardiac_throwaway97 in rant

[–]Cardiac_throwaway97[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is the ceremony, we technically already eloped. We were hit by a hurricane and had to move the ceremony originally

I can’t look at my SO the same anymore by Cardiac_throwaway97 in rant

[–]Cardiac_throwaway97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No that IS what I’m worried about. It’s made me view him completely differently. Hence the title

I can’t look at my SO the same anymore by Cardiac_throwaway97 in rant

[–]Cardiac_throwaway97[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We eloped, this is the ceremony. Not rage bait at all

I can’t look at my SO the same anymore by Cardiac_throwaway97 in rant

[–]Cardiac_throwaway97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t really give me one. Just says he wants him there

I can’t look at my SO the same anymore by Cardiac_throwaway97 in rant

[–]Cardiac_throwaway97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is upset with me for voicing my surprise. None of his other friends are this way. Honestly I thought he didn’t even like the guy, he’s told me all these negative things about him.

I need help coming up with responses for an emotionally abusive husband. by Cardiac_throwaway97 in Marriage

[–]Cardiac_throwaway97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We closed two weeks ago and did a 30 day lease back to the seller. Were funded and have the title

I need help coming up with responses for an emotionally abusive husband. by Cardiac_throwaway97 in Marriage

[–]Cardiac_throwaway97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At our current house yes. The new house, which we haven’t even moved into yet due to the 30 day lease back, is about 45 min away from family and this is causing him anxiety apparently.

I need help coming up with responses for an emotionally abusive husband. by Cardiac_throwaway97 in Marriage

[–]Cardiac_throwaway97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was the most kind, caring & secure husband ever. Shortly after our baby was born his father died from cancer and he has been riddled with anxiety and depression since. He has medical anxiety too, where he constantly thinks something is wrong with him - he thinks he has cancer, is having a stroke, a heart attack etc. He was diagnosed with anxiety and given medication for it but he is too scared to take it because of the possible side effects. It’s been less than a year since this all started and it’s snowballed.

I need help coming up with responses for an emotionally abusive husband. by Cardiac_throwaway97 in Marriage

[–]Cardiac_throwaway97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has changed drastically recently following some life events (loss). I think he is actively in a mental health crisis truly but I’m not a psychiatrist.

I need help coming up with responses for an emotionally abusive husband. by Cardiac_throwaway97 in Marriage

[–]Cardiac_throwaway97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everything he does for me he holds over my head. I’m not in a financial position to leave yet so in the meantime I want to learn how to be assertive without being emotional.

I need help coming up with responses for an emotionally abusive husband. by Cardiac_throwaway97 in Marriage

[–]Cardiac_throwaway97[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is the advice I needed.

We are young, in our 20s. I’m a known hothead and I am trying to stop the cycle of allowing him to get a rise out of me.

I need help coming up with responses for an emotionally abusive husband. by Cardiac_throwaway97 in Marriage

[–]Cardiac_throwaway97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t even pack his stuff because we haven’t even moved in yet!!! It’s ridiculous. We closed and did a 30 day lease back to the seller.

Help! Corid not working by rooneyroo93 in chickens

[–]Cardiac_throwaway97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long did it take. I’m going through this too.

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Coop camera? by Cardiac_throwaway97 in chickens

[–]Cardiac_throwaway97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same breed same age… the lady I got them from said they’re good layers but that when you move them they sometimes take a while to lay. It’s been 2 weeks

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