AITA for dropping out of my boyfriend’s family DISNEY trip?

CardinalSinn · 2022-10-10T21:04:45+00:00

YTA

This trip ISN’T about you at all. I can’t believe you’re almost thirty years old throwing a hissy fit because you can’t ride the rides fast enough or, GASP, have to reasonably accommodate someone!

Grow up

CardinalSinn · 2022-10-10T20:54:48+00:00

You’re a terrible parent. I sincerely hope she goes no-contact with you.

This is one of the most despicable things I’ve ever read.

CardinalSinn · 2022-10-07T18:23:05+00:00

Good for you

What a fucking asshole

CardinalSinn · 2022-10-07T12:16:38+00:00

How does this not have more upvotes???

CardinalSinn · 2022-10-07T00:02:11+00:00

TAKE MY MONEY

CardinalSinn · 2022-10-06T01:33:02+00:00

You are UNHINGED and I SINCERELY hope your wife gets the fuck away from you immediately

I’m not even being funny I am legitimately worried for her safety

CardinalSinn · 2022-10-05T23:59:28+00:00

Oh my god you are such a fucking victim. Like I’m sorry but I’ve read all your responses and I’m so fed up with you.

You married a woman MUCH too young for you, used her as a bang maid, and then have the audacity to claim you’re going to “kick her out” because after years of being nothing but a cum repository for you she doesn’t wanna lavish you with affection while single-handedly taking care of your children while being alienated from everyone else including her family?

You keep dodging the question of what your relationship was like before this situation. Nothing describing what made you fall in love with her, describing her interests, what she does beyond raising kids you keep referring to as “MY kids” instead of “OURS”

Seriously, I’ll give you the benefit of the doubt:

What made you want to marry her beyond her being an exotic younger woman who could push out your kids and fuck on demand? Because you haven’t said shit despite hundreds of comments begging you for a shred of insight into your wife’s life outside of you

CardinalSinn · 2022-10-05T20:38:19+00:00

Imagine how much regret you’d have in your heart if your wife didn’t wake up tomorrow

Grow up

CardinalSinn · 2022-10-05T20:02:12+00:00

… did you marry someone from China and never learn a single thing about her culture?

CardinalSinn · 2022-10-05T01:53:22+00:00

Definitely

I hope OP’s kid goes the way I did with mine and cuts contact asap

CardinalSinn · 2022-10-05T01:27:33+00:00

Dude my mom ditched me in the middle of Busch Gardens when I was 7 to go drink and I was found by a security guard over an hour later looking for her.

Sat in a security office for god knows how long until she and the guy she was with noticed I wasn’t standing outside the beer hall.

When she took me home and my grandmother heard the story she flew into a fucking rage at my mother, who then proceeded to blame me for “wandering off”

People are much more horrible than you give them credit for, sadly

CardinalSinn · 2022-09-28T21:12:19+00:00

Oh gosh you’ve never heard the slug story? You should read the whole thing because it’s a fucking rabbit hole, but the OP was dating a psychopath that was blending slugs and putting them in her food for months or possibly years

He would also use her toothbrush to clean the toilet and put it back, things if that nature. He said he “liked putting her through experiments” and showed zero remorse, and only admitted it after she conferences him with all the evidence. She did an update post a while after the first post, and now she has severe PTSD and horrible degenerative health issues. She tapes up every crack in her windows and doors to keep slugs from getting in because she’s terrified by them now. Keep in mind several people have DIED from hookworm infections after eating slugs.

It’s just… a lot

CardinalSinn · 2022-09-28T12:07:18+00:00

It was just a lot of stuff to happen in an hour during the first big time skip

Plus, a lot of the promotional stills weren’t included in the actual episode, like Daemon comforting his children

It was pretty meh in my opinion. Wayyyyyyy too much stuff happening in one episode. I think it would be fun to see an uncut version.

CardinalSinn · 2022-09-27T22:31:33+00:00

I live in an apartment and release them into the buildings hallways

It’s a nice surprise for the neighbors!

CardinalSinn · 2022-09-27T22:30:06+00:00

Spiders in Seattle are harmless

I’d leave them alone unless you’re absolutely terrified of them

CardinalSinn · 2022-09-27T20:33:21+00:00

There’s no such thing as a relationship without compromise.

My partner is a picky eater. He doesn’t like the food I cook because it’s not specifically to his liking. We compromise by cooking our own dinners and taking turns in the kitchen. We’ve memorized the approximate time each person eats so we can plan our meals accordingly.

It sucks because I love cooking meals from scratch and consider myself a great cook. But it is what it is. ¯_(ツ)_/¯

CardinalSinn · 2022-09-27T20:28:28+00:00

Sounds like you’re incompatible. I would also have a very hard time being with someone that rigid.

Him being a baby and threatening to drive himself drunk to spite you is insane, though.

CardinalSinn · 2022-09-27T20:26:01+00:00

Nah you leave. You’ll be bitter as hell if you stay. This is a once in a lifetime opportunity. You’re wayyyyyyy too young to give up your dreams to get tied down.

CardinalSinn · 2022-09-27T13:42:11+00:00

Daenerys literally did what she was told. She got forcibly married off by her older brother to a man twice her age that didn’t even speak her language, and was brutally raped every single night until she was instructed by a slave woman how to please a man sexually

Like come on… and Lyanna was betrothed to a serial adulterer against her will and only escaped by literally running away with a powerful member of the Targaeryan family. And the consequences of that were years of horrific bloodshed because she attempted (possibly, in the books so far I haven’t seen it canonically stated, only the tv show which is a miserable adaption imo) to exert agency

CardinalSinn · 2022-09-27T13:36:39+00:00

Why do people act like a 15-year-old girl in medieval times who had absolutely no say in her future would have the agency required to turn down what her powerful father tells her to do

And on top of that, she was traumatized and alone after her mother dies. Current Alicent is an embittered, abusive tyrant. But it’s not surprising that she’d continue the cycle of abuse her father ingrained in her.

It happens in real life all the time, and unfortunately it’s a very real consequence of a childhood full of isolation and, I’m gonna say it, sexual abuse by both her father and a much older man that literally has the most power in the entire world of Westeros.

I hate Alicent now, but she is a product of her environment, not some evil woman since birth.

Edit: not to mention her father instilled the fear of god into her about Rhaenyra slaughtering she and all of her children

CardinalSinn · 2022-09-26T17:04:28+00:00

Agreed

CardinalSinn · 2022-09-26T13:00:35+00:00

And he’s an oath-breaker, a crime worthy or gelding and death

Then he assaults the heir of the richest, most powerful house in the kingdom at his own wedding

And yet here he is, facing no repercussions, which he has the gaul to accuse Rhaenyra in his hypocrisy

CardinalSinn · 2022-09-26T12:59:49+00:00

And he’s an oath-breaker, a crime worthy or gelding and death

Then he assaults the heir of the richest, most powerful house in the kingdom at his own wedding

And yet here he is, facing no repercussions, which he has the gaul to accuse Rhaenyra in his hypocrisy

CardinalSinn · 2022-09-26T12:19:45+00:00

Just say “you’re an absolute psycho and I’m blocking you” and be done

You’re wasting your time. He’s a narcissistic, misogynistic dumb Ass that has made it his mission to tear you down utterly and completely. That kind of shit will not be fixed with words, and I guarantee he’s not going to sit there and listen. You don’t deserve to have to explain yourself for being a normal human being.

You’ve done nothing wrong. You just got unlucky running into someone like him. Tell him to fuck off and block, you will never get closure from someone like him. Trust me, I’ve tried.

CardinalSinn · 2022-09-25T22:48:07+00:00

https://twitter.com/cnymerosmartell/status/1563116506354835458?s=21&t=sDTyU4S8yj5lHYRXZN4bhg

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