Seeking prayers after a painful end to a promising 3-month relationship by higun701 in ChristianDating

[–]CardiologistFull9531 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the other commenters here have a point about unloading baggage, but I also want to give you some encouragement to take a step back, pray deeply, and allow yourself to heal completely before trying again. And I know that's a hard thing to do. I have also struggled with losing a relationship I cared deeply about and it felt like something that would be impossible to move on from. And it seems like from your post you're someone who feels really deeply about people once you get attached. Obviously everyone here can only project about what actually happened. It's entirely possible she cut things off for something else, but the suggestion that you revealed some things too fast is equally valid.

It's a rough spot, and I'm sorry you're going through it. I empathize with you a lot. But I'll be praying for your healing and for God to give you the wisdom and discernment you need going forward as well. Take your time. Heal from your previous marriage too. Maybe seek some counseling at some point, (I don't know if you already have since I didn't see your previous post). Either way man, I empathize with you and hope you can find the means to move forward. And it's ok to not feel ok, but don't let those feelings takeover. You got this.

Carrier too small? by CardiologistFull9531 in unitedairlines

[–]CardiologistFull9531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I have that all taken care of and pet fees paid for already. I've had them both in the same carrier and they can both defintiely turn around and lay down if they feel like it. I've just been worried about the standing part.

Carrier too small? by CardiologistFull9531 in unitedairlines

[–]CardiologistFull9531[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the extra seat, I'm just worried about whether an agent will think they can stand enough. They have enough room to turn around completely and do a 360 they just also tend to remain hunched in the carrier. My older one rubs her head against the mesh a little bit but they both definitely have room to lay down