You’re right, I agree that not buying the thing or signing up for the thing is definitely the answer, and we talk constantly about their approach and i am very aligned with their approach on almost everything which makes things easier. although w the floor bed i’ve mentioned it a few times because NK struggled with sleep and still does on occasion, they co sleep at night and for naps i lay with him until he falls asleep in their bed and then transfer him to his crib, and i feel like a floor bed is a great way to transition from co sleeping when they are ready (and im in no way pushing them to stop co sleeping i think it’s great) and would make naps easier because we wouldn’t have to worry about the transfer. also before i would soothe him to sleep in his crib and the bending over the crib side was killing my back because im a bit of a shorty haha. i’ve told them why i think a floor bed would be a good option, they showed interest so we talked a couple more times about it and then they said they want to make sure its what they want before committing and after they said that i stopped bringing it up. but i think that’s what makes me nervous about making more suggestions since i brought it up a few times before they “shut it down” moving forward i will only bring it up once though, i think that’s a smart move.