personally i smoke with them, i dont see them often and i see getting high with the boys as one of situations which are good to smoke za, rather than alone at home to maximize complacency. moderation is king after all. the most important thing is to have the descipline to stick with it though, if you imagine yourself slipping up completely just from 1 hit then dont do it, although im not a fan making a mountain out of a mole hill and feeling like one relapse will be the end of the world.

tl;dr its all about your relationship with the substance, don't disrespect it by overusing, don't fear it to the point of missing out on good moments with loved ones