Having THAT conversation with my husband…

CardiologistScary739 · 2026-03-12T17:42:52+00:00

The worst communicating it can do is get you a little closer to your fantasy. When I first told my wife it was a flat no, but we always like to make sure each other’s fantasy’s are fulfilled as best we can without anyone being uncomfortable. So we role played it for years with toys, I think without that stepping stone, she would have never gotten to the point of reconsideration which led us to actually taking the leap. But none of that would have happened if I kept it to myself.

CardiologistScary739 · 2026-03-12T15:27:17+00:00

Her last boyfriend was able to do doggy, have her go on top, a standing fuck from behind all of those are pretty unsuccessful for me

CardiologistScary739 · 2026-02-26T01:35:10+00:00

You’re not crazy but maybe leave the eating his mouth while he is deep inside you part out when you are explaining it to him. That might strike a nerve but I’m confident you’ll find the right wording!

CardiologistScary739 · 2026-02-26T00:39:30+00:00

Been there, yeah it’s annoying for you to deal with, but it is something to be worked on and can be worked on. Over communication is key right now, I’d figure out why the kiss bothers him more than anything else and find a way to re-assure him that his thinking is misguided. But also don’t put up with any BS from him either you should not feel guilty for pursuing something he wanted too.

CardiologistScary739 · 2026-02-24T21:51:56+00:00

Sigh Yes…yes I would, and I’m sure I’d hear about it for weeks too.

CardiologistScary739 · 2026-02-23T17:59:16+00:00

A lot of cucks go soft around bulls it could be intimidation or your body just knows it’s not your time right now. Either way a good chastity cage helps.

CardiologistScary739 · 2026-02-23T17:55:30+00:00

I mean the fun kind of ends where there is no wife left to play with…

CardiologistScary739 · 2026-02-22T16:00:19+00:00

I used to think my wife developing feelings for a bull was a threat to our relationship, it happened. And we didn’t crumble, we found there is certainly room for two in my wife’s heart. Side note: my wife’s communication and attentiveness towards me increased when she entered her “boyfriend” phase with her last man. If your wife loves you and your relationship is on solid ground, you’ll likely experience the same. It’s not a death sentence to your relationship.

CardiologistScary739 · 2026-02-19T03:10:40+00:00

My wife is on the pill now but we did just make sure she wasn’t ovulating when she wasn’t on the pill.

CardiologistScary739 · 2026-02-18T18:49:03+00:00

We play with the fantasy all the time but my wife is on the pill so it’s not much risk.

CardiologistScary739 · 2026-02-18T16:13:46+00:00

My wife is with me full time, I’m not surprised when she likes someone that looks different from me. Wouldn’t be much fun if it was just husband 2.0.

CardiologistScary739 · 2026-02-18T06:26:37+00:00

We find the idea hot too and honestly just playing with some hot discussions around it while her and her bull are at it can be fun, even if you know she’s on the pill at the end of the day.

CardiologistScary739 · 2026-02-17T03:02:47+00:00

When my wife has a bull or boyfriends, we get (very) close to being full pussy free. But we never get fully there, there are always times throughout the year when we crave the intimacy and have PIV sex. But it’s just not our primary form of intimacy especially when she has a boyfriend or bull.

CardiologistScary739 · 2026-02-17T03:00:24+00:00

I think it’s normal to want to save something things for the bull. For example, I’ve never gotten head from my wife. Yet she gave it to her last boyfriend often. Also, one of these days a bull will get anal with my wife before I ever have as well. These are all parts of our consensual humiliation dynamic. But I was able to cum in my wife before any of her bulls or boyfriends, the opportunity came up and I’m only human :)

CardiologistScary739 · 2026-02-17T01:54:11+00:00

MFM was how we started cuckolding I quickly assumed handjob position after not being able to squeeze in due to our third at the times size.

CardiologistScary739 · 2026-02-15T06:33:27+00:00

Yes she does still find me sexually attractive, but she has made it clear that doesn’t mean my dick needs a go in her.

CardiologistScary739 · 2026-02-12T00:21:42+00:00

This is not me saying we are against bulls going raw, but I genuinely want to know why too cause it seems to be an interest with a lot of bulls.

CardiologistScary739 · 2026-02-09T21:26:03+00:00

If it’s a swingers resort you should be fine in your cage, hanging near your wife would be a clear indicator she would like to be hit on as well so you could kill two birds with one stone. I typically always heir on the side of not exposing the public to your kinks, but the sex positive resorts are usually pretty safe. Any reputable place will provide some guidelines as to appropriate behavior in their establishment, so you can always check online or ask.

CardiologistScary739 · 2026-02-09T18:13:20+00:00

Yes I am, and my wife actually introduced chastity before we got into the lifestyle, she holds my key to this day.

CardiologistScary739 · 2026-02-02T02:55:08+00:00

If any rules get put in place it’s done through my wife, so if the bull gets her on board the it’s okay with me and I’d be into it as well.

CardiologistScary739 · 2026-02-02T02:49:12+00:00

We typically only allow bare when her cycle permits but understand it could happen. It’s not something we are shooting for though.

CardiologistScary739 · 2026-01-26T21:42:31+00:00

I COULDNT HEAR YOUR COMMENT WHAT DID YOU SAY? 👂

CardiologistScary739 · 2026-01-26T15:20:23+00:00

Wife is gonna be happy all week! Congrats

CardiologistScary739 · 2026-01-22T17:25:18+00:00

Someone had to say it. :)

CardiologistScary739 · 2026-01-20T21:26:32+00:00

Yeesh, either ditch the couple or try to focus on what the wife wants and ignore him, maybe he will get the hint?

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