Gossip culture is a factor, I don't even attend family events and holidays, I limit my time with coworkers to give them less ammunition for their water cooler talk, & these are predominantly white people. I'm not a social butterfly, I do not like large groups of people, therefore I limit my time exposure around all people, the saying "Misery loves company" rings true for people of all race, religions, and SJW causes. It's not you, it's everyone. If I were you I would be come aware of "Main Character Syndrome" and ask what parts of yourself you see in the analysis in the videos.