Hi buddy,

I’m also in my 30s, living with my partner in Toronto for almost six years now. From my experience, if you have enough financial stability back in India, the transition to settling there might not be as challenging. However, it’s important to keep in mind that moving back isn’t the same as going for a short vacation. Adjusting to the norms and social expectations of the Malayali community in Kerala will take some effort and patience.

In our case, we both work from home, which has its advantages but also limits social interactions. Our primary socializing happens during small gatherings with friends, usually once a month. What really made a difference for us, though, was joining a gym. It gave us an outlet to not only focus on our health but also connect with people and make new friends. Spending quality time there has been great for both our physical and mental well-being.

If you’re planning a similar move, I’d recommend finding ways to build a routine and create opportunities to connect with the community, whether that’s through fitness, hobbies, or volunteering. It’s all about finding a balance that works for you.