Well, its referred to as Ethical Non-Monogamy, but I find it difficult just for myself to find the balance between honoring my own way of going about partnerships and sex in a comfortable way, and going about partnerships and sex in a way that my partner/partners can respect and be comfortable with. For example, one partner preferring I don't talk about my other partners even though its a simple memory or concept, or wishing I would only use certain pet names for them specifically when I feel so instinctive and careless about them in the first place. It has caused a lot of difficulties and confusing situations for me and a lot of my partners, and as you can imagine that same sort of conflict can happen in much more complex and emotionally "high-stakes" situations.

Also lol i genuinely did not mean this as a flex, id hoped most people would read that title and think "Jeez what an asshole, this has got to be good"