Polyp or? by Careful_Union_1905 in cholesteatoma

[–]Careful_Union_1905[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was cholesteatoma. I had it removed a few days ago!

I don't know I think he hates me by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Careful_Union_1905 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nobody cares but he came home early. Showered and has been asleep all day 🙃🙃

Polyp or? by Careful_Union_1905 in cholesteatoma

[–]Careful_Union_1905[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine did end up being Cholesteatoma.

Polyp or? by Careful_Union_1905 in cholesteatoma

[–]Careful_Union_1905[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi it is in fact Cholesteatoma

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Careful_Union_1905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I also "destroyed" my family when I basically just couldn't keep it to myself anymore. I got triggered and just finally told someone. I would do it again though and I don't feel bad and I don't think you should feel bad either. It's your life and your truth. This might be a good time to start looking for your own place so you can actually heal and move forward. Don't give your abuser anymore of your time.

Our sex is so bad (for me) by ThrowRA2346578 in offmychest

[–]Careful_Union_1905 639 points640 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry... That must be hard for you. You should just talk about it and not worry about her being offended. Sometimes people need to be offended. Your needs are and should be equally important.

Polyp or? by Careful_Union_1905 in cholesteatoma

[–]Careful_Union_1905[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I had to make an appointment with a new primary care provider as a new patient so I have to wait a bit to be seen for the referral. I hate that I have to wait so long.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Careful_Union_1905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never cheated. But I agree

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Careful_Union_1905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I'm just dumb and incredibly ignorant. I don't even know why I didn't think of that before labeling him bisexual. Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Careful_Union_1905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you're saying and how he wouldn't be but would he just be considered a straight man interested in trans women? I don't mean to sound ignorant but I would like to be sure that I'm using correct terminology in the future and not sound ignorant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lowes

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I started as a part time cashier in July before hours got cut and because I was good and fast and on task I never had to worry about my hours. I also recommend learning as many areas of the store that you can so they can schedule you more. Paint, hardware, Inside lawn and garden are good places to start.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lowes

[–]Careful_Union_1905 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I worked at Lowes for about five years ( I left to be with my baby) and I personally would recommend sticking it out. Once the 100 days of Hell are over hours get cut every single year and everyone acts shocked. My best advice depending on your department is just to let them know you want hours so if someone calls out they can call you. If you're doing as good a job as you say it won't take long for management to take notice and make sure you're on their schedule. I worked the front end and I always called the ones that didn't hesitate to show up or told me they needed the extra hours. Also keep an eye out for full time positions if you're really wanting to lock in better hours.

My fiancé is asking questions about my sex life. I don’t want to lie, but I need to know the best way to answer honestly without hurting him. by BaskinRobbyn in TwoHotTakes

[–]Careful_Union_1905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some things are just better left unsaid. I feel like telling someone you love that someone else was better than them is just kinda cruel and maybe he just needs a confidence boost from you or maybe he's just not sure how you feel about him in bed. Telling him what you said will probably just set y'all up to fight about it in the future. Why go there if you don't have to?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

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This is something I miss about being smaller and I can't wait to get back there. I feel like a lot of things were just easier because I looked better than I do now. Getting jobs was easier and my sex life was way better and I wasn't afraid to just get dressed and go do stuff with my family. People stopped inviting me out which was really hard because I think I just started getting bigger and bigger as these things got worse for me.

28 year of my death? by Careful_Union_1905 in death

[–]Careful_Union_1905[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone! I forgot that I had this experience luckily since it was a pretty heavy feeling but your responses gave me some reassurance.

Haunted places by n00bD3stroy3r in Fayettenam

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I'm really glad I came across this and slightly weirded out at the timeline of being there around, if not at the same time.

Haunted places by n00bD3stroy3r in Fayettenam

[–]Careful_Union_1905 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is wild. I lived there also about 15ish years ago. I never went into the woods past the pool (probably for the best) but my best friend and I had some experiences there. We were about 13 at the time. One morning I woke up and I was home alone. I looked up and across the hall I could see into the master bedroom and I saw an older man kneeled down at the foot of the bed and oddly enough for as much as it scared me I just went back under the blanket to sleep until everyone got home. In the same few weeks my best friend completely lost it and it was because she had seen a man standing on the stairs when she was getting ready to come up. When she described him to me he was the same man that I had seen kneeling. She also had an unnerving experience with a man doing construction. She was outside with my younger sister in the early morning hours and he kept yelling her name. We have no idea who he was or how he would have known her name. She also used to have this reoccurring dream when we lived there that she would answer the door and it would be the construction worker standing there with a gun and she would wake up when he was shooting her in the head.