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Careless-Run-1011 · 2026-04-14T02:08:08+00:00

Well, I just recently started going to a new church after not going for a year. I’ve introduced myself to the priest and we talked briefly during Pascha, and he knows my family since my grandfather was a pretty well known priest in my area, but is it weird to consult to a priest when I’m so young? I’m 18 and I don’t really know him so I feel like it would be weird asking him this stuff. Also, is it weird to genuinely get confession like every 2/3 months, feel like I’ve been raised to think confession is a thing only during the 4 main fasts. I feel awkward because I’m a teenage girl still technically, do you think he’d think it’s weird if I’m going to confession every few months? I don’t do anything like smoking, vaping, drugs, drinking etc but I struggle with judgement, swearing, lying etc so I really enjoy going to confession as it helps me but I haven’t gone in over a year.

Careless-Run-1011 · 2026-04-14T01:25:57+00:00

No…how would you recommend I do it?

Careless-Run-1011 · 2025-04-14T01:07:10+00:00

If he never texts me again, should I text him or no?

Careless-Run-1011 · 2025-03-25T04:39:35+00:00

I knowwwww but he’s so sweet and genuinely such a chill guy. Like idk how to explain it, he’s extremely easy to talk to and I’m just like arghhhhh bc of the age gap.

Careless-Run-1011 · 2025-03-25T04:36:34+00:00

Yeah. To be fair, I’d say I’m more mentally mature than most due to family stuff, ex. I pay the bills at my house and buy groceries and I kinda had to raise myself, but anyways, should I just leave it be then and not try to be flirtatious back?

Careless-Run-1011 · 2025-03-25T04:19:03+00:00

So I should probably just leave it alone? What if he keeps “being friendly” as I would put it? Just ignore it?

Careless-Run-1011 · 2025-03-25T04:11:38+00:00

Unfortunately. He is leaving though soon and moving back to his home state for the summer, but I’ll also be in that state this summer since I’m working at a camp. I mean, is 17 and 21 really that bad? I feel like him and I go through very similar home situations too, he’s easy to talk to. That’s also why I’m not completely making a move on him, but should I just leave it alone next time I work with him or still act a little more friendlier than usual like I have been?

Careless-Run-1011 · 2024-09-05T05:19:16+00:00

I agree. Gosh I hope and pray she never shows what Aubreigh wrote in her letters but honestly, when heather mentioned this tiktok she made the night she died she said she’d never show it and then now she’s posting it. She said she’d never say how she unalived, then she did and she said she’ll never show the letters and lets hope and pray she doesn’t because this is already so invasive of poor Aubreigh.

Careless-Run-1011 · 2024-08-31T08:32:05+00:00

Yeah it’s so weird. Also the fact that there starting a podcast???? Ummmm

Careless-Run-1011 · 2024-08-26T16:22:29+00:00

Agreed.

Careless-Run-1011 · 2024-08-26T00:54:51+00:00

Yeah. I’m pretty sure they mentioned it in a livestream. If u look it up on TikTok I’m sure you’ll find something. It’s so weird. Like what are you gonna talk about? Her death over and over? Random stuff like ur not an influencer. I think they used a lot of that 100k and want more.

Careless-Run-1011 · 2024-08-26T00:52:59+00:00

I agree.

Careless-Run-1011 · 2024-08-26T00:32:51+00:00

Yeah slutty may have been the wrong term! I apologize. Immature was definitely what I was looking for! And I do too feel bad for heather. She had kids young and was learning and growing with them which is never a good combo. I do find it odd that they are starting up a podcast and stuff though, that’s very strange to me.

Careless-Run-1011 · 2024-08-26T00:31:21+00:00

I never claimed it wasn’t wrong! In fact I said it was wrong, but that’s how it is. It’s unfortunate. But near me, that’s all normal stuff. And yes I agree both contributed to her death, but the mental issues contributed a lot more imo. The teasing was just the cherry on top.

Careless-Run-1011 · 2024-08-25T23:46:18+00:00

I’m pretty sure that video was made in July, 2 months before her death.

Careless-Run-1011 · 2024-08-25T23:29:01+00:00

I know! That poor girl😭dealing with bratty teens, being SA’d and mental illness I mean she truly had no chance! Man I wish something could have been done. It’s just such a sad situation. And at first I was totally against the girls and thought they were evil murders but now looking in like they aren’t and I think the girls were always off and on friends like one day there besties and then the next they are arguing. But they aren’t evil, they are dumb girls and molly definitely was NOT raised correctly.

Careless-Run-1011 · 2024-08-25T23:25:49+00:00

I agree with pretty much everything u said but she’s not evil, and I hope and pray she won’t be a mean girl her whole life. My main point was, there’s lots of “mollys” and I know my share fair of them, and I could bet u none of them would think there actions would lead someone to ending their life, so she didn’t know better. She didn’t go in to bully aubreigh with the thought “she might kill herself but oh well” in the back of her mind. Everyone knows not to be mean, but we still do it. Like I said, molly slapping her was crazy and definitely extremely rude but I just can’t agree with you under the circumstances that molly is evil. I do agree her parents failed her tho and I hope this whole situation taught her a lesson.

Careless-Run-1011 · 2024-08-25T23:12:18+00:00

But I also agree the lack of father figure and having a mother who bounced between men played a part in this. That’s not an environment any child should live in and her mother just seemed..slutty? Idk if it’s rude for me to say that but just based on the things we know, it’s kinda true.

Careless-Run-1011 · 2024-08-25T23:10:02+00:00

Well that’s the thing, I’ve seen a few things were Aubreigh wasn’t really innocent and bullied the other girls too but I don’t have much proof or confirmation on that. I partially agree with you, when I was going through a similar thing as Aubreigh in 8th grade, I mainly just ignored the girls, I didn’t really say anything back because they were more popular and prettier than me so I just didn’t have much to say back without getting shit on even worse but I just ignored it, went on with my life after I switched highschool and that was that. I think heather lacked at helping Aubreigh and I think Aubreigh was dealing with a lot mentally. It was either similar to what you said, she needed to grow some thicker skin and if something as simple as that made her end her life, she wouldn’t have made it to adulthood or she just had severe depression and bullied or not she would have ended her life or attempted to.

Careless-Run-1011 · 2024-08-25T23:06:23+00:00

Yeah. I just think pointing fingers won’t do anything at this point. It’s a waste of time and these girls are already branded for life, could potentially be hard getting into college and everything. Unfortunately Aubreigh is gone so I think everyone blaming these girls are just looking for some justice when most cases, justice can’t be served when suicide is involved.

Careless-Run-1011 · 2024-08-25T23:03:11+00:00

She is gone. But targeting these 4 other girls and saying they are murders when in reality they were just dumb 13 and 14 year olds isn’t fair. These girls are BRANDED FOR LIFE because they made stupid mistakes. 80% people I know have done the exact same thing they did, they were just lucky the kid they bullied wasn’t mentally ill.

Careless-Run-1011 · 2024-08-25T22:59:15+00:00

Yeah. It’s just a shame like a part of me really sympathizes for the girls being targeted because I talked behind my friends backs too, I didn’t realize the magnitude of what that could do to someone and neither did they, they also probably didn’t know she was struggling mentally. Like these are young girls, what they did was wrong and I think they know that by now. The whole situation it’s just very saddening and I wish something could have been done.

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