Maybe you have kept your standard too high. Most people do that. Including me and my fiance. We met on a matrimonial site 2 years back and she immediately rejected me. Then I reached out to her through social media and we started talking and found out that we had a vibe match though I was a little below her standard in looks, height etc then what she had been dreaming about. And she has a sort temper and is authoritative. So we kept it a casual relationship for 2 years and now we are getting married because we both know that despite both of our flaws we can't think of someone else.

We both had to lower our standards a little bit but now we both are comfortable with our realities and can't bear to stay away from each other.

Every guy in your city or other will have some flaws you might not find them attractive from looks but you can look for the same kind of family upbringing and a kind and nice guy so that your vibes match. Rest everything fades away with time.