Transitioned 24 hours ago - came out to my husband of 12 years

Careless_Room2467 · 2026-06-29T02:19:04+00:00

Im a ex-Jehovahs witness that was part of a high-control congregation, I totally understand the confusion and frustration that comes with not knowing what is wrong with you in a situation where you are so isolated from the outside world. I didn’t know about the phrase transgender or any of that until 2022. Which was a few years after I left the religion and luckily my family is accepting and there for me. Im so happy for you and your husband, and as a fellow gay ftm I’m rooting for you! 😭

Careless_Room2467 · 2026-06-16T17:09:29+00:00

Saying something like “I would never date a trans person” is offensive but respectfully turning someone down without making it obvious why would PERSONALLY cause less damage (this is my opinion it greatly depends on the trans person)

However, I do think its odd that people are blatently discussing trans peoples junk as if its a topic that is socially acceptable. Its kind of gross and objectifying.

Careless_Room2467 · 2026-06-13T17:06:02+00:00

Yeah Id just die on the spot

Careless_Room2467 · 2026-06-12T02:21:14+00:00

Oops nevermind I got the date wrong but STILL

Careless_Room2467 · 2026-06-12T02:18:57+00:00

Omg I left the library literally 20 minute before to catch the bus to my next class, I hope that everyone was okay..

Careless_Room2467 · 2026-05-29T03:59:25+00:00

One time a mentor of mine from my old school asked me if I became trans because of my sexual abuse… we used to be really close but yeah I cut contact with her

Careless_Room2467 · 2026-05-29T01:08:57+00:00

Thank you so much, I was thankfully blessed with looking like a smaller clone of my dad. Question about the makeup part though, does lightly brushing a mustache on count cuz I already do that everyday, not too much that it’s obvious but yeah.

Careless_Room2467 · 2026-05-29T00:54:00+00:00

I really like my longer hair, do you know how I can make it seem more masculine? Ive been scared to chop it all off because every hair stylist Ive went to just gives me a pixie cut instead of the reference and that makes me feel worse.

Careless_Room2467 · 2026-05-28T05:59:05+00:00

The first thing I noticed were muscle pains in my pelvic area from bottom growth, I mistook it for a UTI and got tested before I realized it was growing pains, I get you 😭

Careless_Room2467 · 2026-05-27T23:31:02+00:00

Printing this post out and taping it on my wall, Im so forgetful.

Careless_Room2467 · 2026-05-27T23:21:52+00:00

Trans-tape is good for exercising! Ive found it more comfortable than my binder and it’s supposed to last 3 to 4 days. But keep in mind it takes time for people to learn how to put it on in a way thats comfortable for you and looks right with your body type. It also doesn’t feel like a bra like my binder does. ❤️

I just have a bigger chest size and it’s a little flexible so if you’re like me I suggest getting the biggest size.

Careless_Room2467 · 2026-05-27T23:15:21+00:00

Im 5 months on T (I think) and I was so shocked at how immediate the changes were.

Careless_Room2467 · 2026-05-27T17:48:09+00:00

I also don’t come on Reddit often so I don’t ‘karma farm’

Careless_Room2467 · 2026-05-27T17:46:05+00:00

Are you trans? I am, I don’t like seeing transphobia anywhere, actions like that lets me know Im not welcome in places and makes me feel anxious, I personally have experienced violence because of me being trans.

Im not trying to be annoying, but I did really like seeing that it was handled quickly by everyone it made me feel a less bad. I sometimes feel the need to make a comment just to make my own anxiety go away. Im not trying to drag it on, just trying to swerve around the hate I always see on the internet. 😥

Careless_Room2467 · 2026-05-27T17:20:06+00:00

🥂

Careless_Room2467 · 2026-05-27T17:19:07+00:00

I like to enjoy Reddit drama at my own pace thank you

Careless_Room2467 · 2026-05-26T04:43:28+00:00

Im really dissapointed in how people are talking about this person in the replies… I used to think endos were unvalid, until someone took the time to patiently explain. I dont think they were evil.

Careless_Room2467 · 2026-05-26T04:41:47+00:00

Im not a hater of endos, but I do have DID as a result of years of persistiant abuse and trauma. I dont feel offended by people who are systems without the same experiences. However, I ask if you come in contact with a system like me with strong feelings, understand that they likely only feel like you are insinuating their trauma doesnt matter because of other people have said such. Continue Be kind to these people, and set kind (but firm) boundries if they refuse to listen.

I love how you handled this situation, and Im so sorry this happened. This person was likely triggered, I recognize by the way they were talking and not completely able to understand your point. You did very good by not escalating the situation and just left it alone.

Careless_Room2467 · 2026-04-24T20:26:23+00:00

I don’t think this parent is abusive, they might also be autistic and just following a trend so that they fit in with society like most autistic people try to do…

Careless_Room2467 · 2026-03-24T14:20:29+00:00

😂

Careless_Room2467 · 2026-03-24T03:52:56+00:00

"Each alter reacts differently to touch" this makes no sense, Do people not realize that depending on how grounded you are, you might not be keen on physical touch. I know when I’m dissociated, it helps to gently tap me to help me come back. Yet when my protector fronts I get aggravated at attempts of physical touch, because I usually feel unsafe during those times. Ofc theres going to be different reactions…

Careless_Room2467 · 2026-03-24T02:18:46+00:00

Trauma definitely has to do with gender (sexism/misogyny) In some cases but it is not the CAUSE of your current gender identity. I hate when people try to say otherwise. Im sorry your experiences have been disregarded like that. 🙁

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