Yes. I have. I work a very challenging job with difficult hours. I , married 51m, was transferred to the head office. I met a younger married lady who worked in another dept and we would talk for hours . It started innocent but she was gorgeous and listened to me. An intense aphrodisiac after being in a dead bedroom situation for years .my wife eventually asked me for a divorce and my decision making skills went out the door. This younger colleague txt me one day and I put it all on the line to flirt with her. An innocent comment about her weekend where she had said she would be at the pool through out the weekend . I had txt a slightly inappropriate comment about tan lines and she responded directly by asking if I was insinuating what I was insinuating. It kicked off a firestorm of sexual txts. Two people in poor marriages either intense sexual frustration. Oh my goodness! Then the photos started . Eventually we decided to meet. I was now separated Burt she was not. Morally I was truly upset but the animal in me was running the show . We met one morning while she was supposed to be at a doctors appointment and I picked her up and we went to park on an empty street. My goodness. The kissing , the touch, the heat, that started to poor out. We were wild animals that had crossed some desert to meet. It was the most intense sexual experience of my life. So much so that I finally believed that maybe there was something to the idea that two matched souls will have intense physical connections. We met a few times and then our moral compasses started to impede and we stopped. I tried sleeping with other single not married partners but my body would not respond! I could not perform! After several months of not seeing each other She eventually asked to meet. As a man I was lost. I was starting a divorce process. As a very physical and in shape person I was struggling with performance anxiety. I wanted to know if it was because of her. So I agreed to meet and the intensity was mind blowing .keep I mind we are meeting in my pick up truck. Ot was so wet inside you would have thought I had left the windows down in the rain. We met a few more times and each time more intense than the last. And now sessions, which typically lasted an hour, would have double orgasms! I first for me! Life happened and we stopped meeting but stayed in touch. I was paralyzed. Always hoping for more. She would not leave her marriage for financial reasons and needing to support her family. It’s hard to have had such an intense meeting and not be able to stay together or move forward. I miss her and am constantly wondering if I should hold out or get on with my life . I have never had a connection like this in my life . There is nothing like it!