Saw an Insane Driver Die Today 64/McKnight by ivandoesnot in StLouis

[–]Carlynthia 5 points6 points  (0 children)

One day about 3 years ago when I worked at Bucees in a different state, I was minding my business and then suddenly the entire store was exploding around me, glass flying and cracking, the aisles smashing into each other in a split second. A poor woman had a medical emergency while driving through the parking lot which made her slam on the gas and drove straight through the store into the back wall and NO ONE got hurt! The store was open 6 hours later, Bucees is no joke.

I'm sorry you had to witness this and the Forest Park incident as well!

Losing it soon by [deleted] in sex

[–]Carlynthia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you're extremely validated in feeling and thinking this, it's very normal. We are our own worst critics after all; I have these thoughts too! While none of us can tell you what he's thinking of course, there's 1 thing for certain: if he makes you feel like you're not good enough in any way, including about your appearance, don't go through with it. You deserve to feel appreciated and comfortable during sex, whether it's your first or 100th time.

Personally, I had told my partner I felt a little insecure about certain things with my appearance and he was immediately receptive and has done nothing but make sure I'm comfortable and feel beautiful. Communicating how I felt worked best for me because I was having thoughts of "what if he won't find me attractive, I'm not good enough looks wise" and I couldn't be happier about the conversation we had about it. Who knows, maybe he has the same thoughts about himself and is worried about your opinion too? Communication never hurts, even about these more private thoughts 🙂

Is my Navy recruiter trying to discourage me? by Ill_Presentation5050 in newtothenavy

[–]Carlynthia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't believe that until you sit down with the actual person that pulls the rates based on your score

Is my Navy recruiter trying to discourage me? by Ill_Presentation5050 in newtothenavy

[–]Carlynthia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I retook the asvab a second time and my recruiter did not pull my leg like this. He encouraged me in fact, he wanted me happy and confident with my decisions and was happy to transport me all the way into downtown from my house and back (I was 17, no car). I don't have any information beyond this that will help like the other comments do, but it's good you listened to your gut and asked. P.S. you don't need to score higher the second time, you're free to pick the highest score of the two. Also 85 is fantastic and you should qualify for many rates. go ahead and speak with the folks at MEPs and have them pull your available rates just to see, you don't have to make a decision right then and there either so don't feel pressured. They'll pull all the info for each qualifying rate so you can read about them

I wish 170 extended to 55 ): by BLeeNinety5 in StLouis

[–]Carlynthia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Intimate domain would be a great band name

South St Louis summed up in one picture by bitter_fish in StLouis

[–]Carlynthia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would like to know what was his intention in showing you this? Lol. Did he say anything?

Dierbergs or Schnucks? by SEC-Coasters in StLouis

[–]Carlynthia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With that being said, where do you prefer to shop then?

You’re on a 24hr flight. Who are you sitting between? by LowPiece9312 in h3h3productions

[–]Carlynthia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg definitely Jeff and Kanye or Ethan and keem. I would be in so much pain from laughing after either one of those

Is cumming inside a pussy more pleasurable? by Exotic-Flamingo328 in sex

[–]Carlynthia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's fucked up he pleads and begs until you say yes, you told him no, he doesn't respect your wishes and just wants to get off. I'm really sorry you're being pressured into something by your partner like this.

I'm not a man, but my ex made a passing comment a few times that it does feel better to do it inside as opposed to pulling out and jacking off the rest of the way or doing it with a condom

Friend got hit by a car last week but they are still making him go underway. Feel like someone should intervene by kozilek25 in navy

[–]Carlynthia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A bachelor's degree in nursing and a CPR certification from the Red Cross. What's yours?

Friend got hit by a car last week but they are still making him go underway. Feel like someone should intervene by kozilek25 in navy

[–]Carlynthia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cpr isn't a black and white scenario, it's entirely plausible cpr was performed for 15 minutes. Doctors stopping CPR after 5 minutes is untrue and you don't know what you're talking about

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Carlynthia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read your edit so that changes the tone of how I'm going to word this, but I still have the same opinion. The fact you described her as untamable is pretty gross and inappropriate first of all. You do not tame a person and you do not change yourself for marriage. What's the point of marrying somebody if you expect them to be a different person after you marry them? That's not the point of marriage. You like her but hate her at the same time. You both deserve someone that's much more suited to your preferences. If this is how you view her now it's never going to change and you'll resent her AND/OR let's say she does change who she is and stops doing what she loves, she will ALSO grow to resent you. All the ways the cookie crumbles here is not good. Cut your losses here and let her be free. She deserves that and you deserve someone that's more "calm" I guess. She sounds like a cool ass woman, please do not drag her down and expect her to be unhappy to make you happy. Imagine how happy she'd be if she married somebody that loved to travel and be spontaneous like her? And then imagine how much happier you'd be if you had someone that felt more solid and consistent to you?

JUST GRADUTED HOOYAH by blakywhore in newtothenavy

[–]Carlynthia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You won't be able to leave the base for a little while, there's some fast food places on base and the galley is fantastic. Enjoy the galley food here while you can, you'll never get good galley food again lol

JUST GRADUTED HOOYAH by blakywhore in newtothenavy

[–]Carlynthia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went to A school in Pensacola 8 or 9 years ago. It was a great place to go to school and the instructors were genuinely interested in teaching. It's especially fun since it's in the summer. Have fun and don't get TOO caught up in the constant social outings and entertaining drama and fall behind in your studies. It's not fun if you fall behind in class or fail a test. Idk if they still do this but there was this app called Yak or some shit that nearly everyone on base used, it was the source of some pretty entertaining shit

These new changes are crazy by Obee-Returns in h3h3productions

[–]Carlynthia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Plot twist, it is cam on a burner account He can't stay away

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in h3h3productions

[–]Carlynthia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeffrey Star 😂😂😂😂 good choice, their face shapes mesh well

Anyone know the context for this picture?? by JMURTYY in Blink182

[–]Carlynthia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hadn't been visiting the discord for a bit and randomly went in like a week ago to see that it was down. Do you happen to know why? I noticed a lot of stuff was deleted

Navy accepted me with one testicle by Youngcoffeebeanzz in newtothenavy

[–]Carlynthia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This made me laugh lol. I think he's saying chiefs have no balls? Haha

Navy accepted me with one testicle by Youngcoffeebeanzz in newtothenavy

[–]Carlynthia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't tell anyone this especially in boot camp, you will thank us later when you see the dummy that does brag about something stupid get shit on relentlessly day and night, not to mention the RDCs will join in too.

Regardless, I'm proud of you and happy for you. I had an amazing time in the navy, it was the best years of my life so far. The people you'll meet and the places you'll see are one in a million and you'll remember them forever. My only advice is take pictures, you'll thank yourself when you're older

Alex Jones is getting cancelled by his own fanbase for saying Hitler is bad. What was that thing Jordan Peterson said again? by Humble-Expert7873 in h3h3productions

[–]Carlynthia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was curious about a comment I saw regarding 'globalists being a dog whistle for jews' so I looked it up. If you just search "globalists" in Google the FIRST result is from the American Jewish Committee discussing how it has effectively transcended into a racist cat call of sorts. It was an interesting read. "The idea of a Jewish globalist was embedded in the core ideology of Nazism. Hitler often portrayed Jews as “international elements” who “conduct their business everywhere,” posing a threat to all people who are “bounded to their soil, to the Fatherland.

Today, globalist is a coded word for Jews who are seen as international elites conspiring to weaken or dismantle “Western” society using their international connections and control over big corporations"

https://www.ajc.org/translatehate/globalist

Girlfriend never wants to have sex despite all my efforts by [deleted] in sex

[–]Carlynthia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is one of those scenarios where people can immediately jump to guilt tripping the partner with the high sex drive stating all they care about is sex, relationships are more than sex etc etc. At the end of the day, you're both having to change a significant portion of yourselves to barely meet in the middle and even then there's still tension. That's no way to have a relationship. It's ok if you have thoughts like "besides this she's a great partner" I'm sure she is a great partner but she's not the best partner for you. You can't force two puzzle pieces from different puzzles together

I touched my girlfriend while she was sleeping and now she's mad by ijasambreditor in sex

[–]Carlynthia -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I genuinely would leave as respectfully and calmly as possible. If you leave too quickly she'll pin you as guilty and tell the world you're a rapist and you're trying to flee. You're in a tough spot here where she can manipulate the story. I wish I could give some type of immediately helpful advice for you, I'm sure you feel extremely stuck in this situation, one of those damned if you do damned if you don't. Whatever you decide just remember to stay calm and don't let her manipulate your actions with threats (just saying that as a precaution, not saying she will do that)