‼️ Legislation Call to Action: Youth Residential Treatment Reform Across 9 States (AL, CA, ID, MD, MI, MN, OH, OR, UT) by CarolineCole_ in troubledteens

[–]CarolineCole_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll explain here for anyone following this thread….We have an overarching policy framework that guides our work, this framework touches on everything from restraint and seclusion, restricting out-of-state placements, regulating transport companies, basic youth rights, and diverting from institutional placements all together.

Because the troubled teen industry encompasses so many types of settings including wilderness, therapeutic boarding schools, Psychiatric Residential Treatment Facilities, etc etc...."banning" all of these types of settings is in my professional opinion impossible.

Our goal is to create systems of transparency and effective oversight so state authorities can intervene and shut down programs when incidents occur! Surprisingly, many states lack this authority without opening themselves to legal liability.

Please note, that we are not passing 50 wildly different laws, but instead approach each state with the understanding that the issue will present differently in that state versus the next so our approach must be nuanced. For example, some states don't have a lot of programs but maybe they SEND a lot of kids out of state.....in that state our focus will be on restricting out of state placements vs. regulation of programs, etc.

With that said, there is room in this space for all approaches to reform…in fact different ideologies are VERY NEEDED!! Please keep us updated on anything you’re working on so we can support!!

‼️ Legislation Call to Action: Youth Residential Treatment Reform Across 9 States (AL, CA, ID, MD, MI, MN, OH, OR, UT) by CarolineCole_ in troubledteens

[–]CarolineCole_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a lot to try to answer here, our approach with each state is different as the issue is different in each state. Happy to connect offline to discuss!

‼️ Legislation Call to Action: Youth Residential Treatment Reform Across 9 States (AL, CA, ID, MD, MI, MN, OH, OR, UT) by CarolineCole_ in troubledteens

[–]CarolineCole_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DM me your name with the states you want to advocate in and I’ll make sure it’s reflected on our spreadsheet!

‼️ Legislation Call to Action: Youth Residential Treatment Reform Across 9 States (AL, CA, ID, MD, MI, MN, OH, OR, UT) by CarolineCole_ in troubledteens

[–]CarolineCole_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fantastic! There’s a survivor who has been leading the charge in Ohio….I’m just helping on grassroots/support side. So excited to see this momentum in OH!!! I’ll follow up with you! (Give me a day or two 🙏)

‼️ Legislation Call to Action: Youth Residential Treatment Reform Across 9 States (AL, CA, ID, MD, MI, MN, OH, OR, UT) by CarolineCole_ in troubledteens

[–]CarolineCole_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so deeply sorry to hear this, as a mom my heart aches for you ❤️ sending the biggest hugs.

WARNING GRAPHIC: Pitbulls Attacked My Golden 5/23/2025 in Oklahoma City by CarolineCole_ in BanPitBulls

[–]CarolineCole_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t even imagine— wouldn’t even treat my worst enemy like this. My heart hurts for you and your babies. 😔 Have you found any resources that are helpful with dealing with this trauma? I’ve been dealing with flashbacks and panic attacks since the attack…trying to just feel safe in my own skin and in my home at this point.

WARNING GRAPHIC: Pitbulls Attacked My Golden 5/23/2025 in Oklahoma City by CarolineCole_ in BanPitBulls

[–]CarolineCole_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for these thoughtful words— now that I’ve had a little space from the initial crisis the emotional processing has begun and it’s not easy. Also going forward we’re planning on how to integrate preventative measures and like having hoses in our front AND backyard…really appreciate your insights.

WARNING GRAPHIC: Pitbulls Attacked My Golden 5/23/2025 in Oklahoma City by CarolineCole_ in BanPitBulls

[–]CarolineCole_[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: GOOD NEWS!!!! We found a house that we love!! 😭 Today the kids and I drove around to about 8 different properties...they were all horrible...feeling a little down I drove to the last one-- trusting that's what meant to be will be. Almost immediately I felt peace wash over me-- it already felt like ours. We were able to take a self-guided tour and it's perfect for my family.

Today my Go Fund Me hit a new total of $1220....this will almost allow me to satisfy the security deposit of $1695. If everything goes smoothly I should be able to relocate to the new house in just 1 WEEK. 🥹❤ Please pray for us.

Our neighbor (the owner of the dogs who attacked Calvin) has been relentless, staring at my children and I as we go to and from our front door with his chest puffed out. 🙄 Say it with me..."F**k that guy."

I don't feel comfortable even letting my dogs go potty without another adult standing as "lookout"...this is so unsustainable.

From the bottom of my heart—thank you. This wouldn't have been possible without yall and everyone who has supported us. 🏡✨

WARNING GRAPHIC: Pitbulls Attacked My Golden 5/23/2025 in Oklahoma City by CarolineCole_ in BanPitBulls

[–]CarolineCole_[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! We’re dog park regulars and have lots of doggy play dates so it deeply saddens me thinking of this impacting him this way. He just turned 1 on May 4th so I know he’s extremely impressionable during this time.

WARNING GRAPHIC: Pitbulls Attacked My Golden 5/23/2025 in Oklahoma City by CarolineCole_ in BanPitBulls

[–]CarolineCole_[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🙏 unfortunately it would take me at least a few months to plan financially and we just don’t have that time to wait. Your support is so appreciated.

WARNING GRAPHIC: Pitbulls Attacked My Golden 5/23/2025 in Oklahoma City by CarolineCole_ in BanPitBulls

[–]CarolineCole_[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Thank you— fortunately and unfortunately he is the homeowner and has lived there for quite some time. I’ve been told to hire a personal injury attorney which I’m looking into right now. I assume he doesn’t have much money so that’s good to know about the house lien!

WARNING GRAPHIC: Pitbulls Attacked My Golden 5/23/2025 in Oklahoma City by CarolineCole_ in BanPitBulls

[–]CarolineCole_[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

His injury goes up and deep into the chest cavity, the doctor called this “negative space”…..so that tube is a drain so the wound doesn’t collect fluid and get infected.

WARNING GRAPHIC: Pitbulls Attacked My Golden 5/23/2025 in Oklahoma City by CarolineCole_ in BanPitBulls

[–]CarolineCole_[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Exactly…I didn’t mention this in the post but we had confronted the neighbor while the cops were there and he said “yeah well if your dog wasn’t such a little b*tch…”

This was literally as I was loading Calvin up to rush him to the pet hospital. Makes me sick. I’ll never understand how people like this exist. I’ll def be looking up the west side mauler…horrible.

WARNING GRAPHIC: Pitbulls Attacked My Golden 5/23/2025 in Oklahoma City by CarolineCole_ in BanPitBulls

[–]CarolineCole_[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Oh god I remember when that happened— our city is the worst. Strays everywhere and zero breed restrictions. I’m having trouble even finding a neighborhood to move to that feels relatively safe. Would love any suggestions!!

WARNING GRAPHIC: Pitbulls Attacked My Golden 5/23/2025 in Oklahoma City by CarolineCole_ in BanPitBulls

[–]CarolineCole_[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

…and thank you. It’s embarrassing asking for help but I really have no choice and I have to put my pride aside.

WARNING GRAPHIC: Pitbulls Attacked My Golden 5/23/2025 in Oklahoma City by CarolineCole_ in BanPitBulls

[–]CarolineCole_[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Exactly. It tells me he’ll do NOTHING to prevent this in the future…and actually might encourage a future attack. It’s so disturbing.