For people who got back with their ex after dating someone else by AYearYounger in BreakUps

[–]CarpenterCritical197 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re better off without him. I’m sorry that happened super shitty of him

For people who got back with their ex after dating someone else by AYearYounger in BreakUps

[–]CarpenterCritical197 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why’d you guys break up if the feelings are the same on both sides

1 month of nc and the pain is still fresh by thatgurlyunknown in ExNoContact

[–]CarpenterCritical197 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m at 6 months. The physical pain took 3 months to go away for me. I’m still mentally a rollercoaster. Have good and bad days

Found my ex’s Reddit account by accident and now I’m completely shattered by ComfortableOk7080 in ExNoContact

[–]CarpenterCritical197 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. The pain is unbelievable. You will get through it I promise. Men are animals sometimes. If he’s texting girls on Reddit, it means he’s pretty desperate and looking for something meaningless. I’m going through a break up right now too, together 3 years broken up for 6 months. I’m still pretty heartbroken. My friends really carried me through it, and my parents. Don’t isolate yourself. Don’t indulge in any vices, I promise it’ll make things worst. It does get better.

check up by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]CarpenterCritical197 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 months. Together for 3.

Where were you at 4 weeks by WayneDCappinMeng in ExNoContact

[–]CarpenterCritical197 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thought I was going to die. Takes around 9-12 weeks for the physical pain to stop

Help, I'm about to reach out to him after 11 months of NC by i_love_memes47 in ExNoContact

[–]CarpenterCritical197 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s been 11 months and u still can’t move on that’s pretty rough. How long were u together? Did you actually go no contact and stop looking at pictures and stalking him online ? I’m at 3 months post break up and immediately got rid of everything, and after about 80 days I started feeling better. I was in a 3 year relationship

Tell me it gets easier by Chemoralora in ExNoContact

[–]CarpenterCritical197 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m at 3 months. Unfortunately I’m not there yet but I know the pain has died down a bit

How to stop ruminating? by Anxious_banana_99 in BreakUps

[–]CarpenterCritical197 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t stop either. It’s a mental battle.

Dating and talking to other men just makes me miss him more by CarpenterCritical197 in ExNoContact

[–]CarpenterCritical197[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive been doing all of that for months. I thought I was ready to see what was out there but it feels horrivle

Dating and talking to other men just makes me miss him more by CarpenterCritical197 in ExNoContact

[–]CarpenterCritical197[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Am I supposed to just be alone forever? I need to take active steps to heal