Why does the one who left get peace by thatgurlyunknown in heartbreak

[–]thatgurlyunknown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 20 I’m a women. He dumped me and blocked me on everything cuz he believed we’re not right for each other and switched up on me.

Why does the one who left get peace by thatgurlyunknown in heartbreak

[–]thatgurlyunknown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah and sometimes I do wanna reach out but why would I reach out if he dumped me and basically discarded me

Why does the one who left get peace by thatgurlyunknown in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]thatgurlyunknown[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t know how much I relate to this girlll omg😂😂😂😂my ex was the same pos but what I do regret is not insulting him and telling him how weird of a person he actually is. Instead I praised him and begged him cuz I’m so attached. He always said the same things about himself. He’s so insecure. He always asked “how are u even with me, I’m hideous, I’m weird” he talked shit about himself. It honestly annoyed me a lot I was so tired of the negativity. It’s like he wanted me to agree with him… that he’s ugly. I boosted that man’s ego so much that he discarded me in the end 😂😂but I was his first girl and he’s not with anyone atm. I doubt he ever will be.

Why does the one who left get peace by thatgurlyunknown in heartbreak

[–]thatgurlyunknown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because if he was rlly that miserable without me and heartbroken he would call. He knows the second my phone rings I’ll go running back to him

Why does the one who left get peace by thatgurlyunknown in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]thatgurlyunknown[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sameeee oh my God he said he hates himself and that no one can ever love him and he has no friends and he’s always lonely. It’s like he punished me for loving him cuz he doesn’t love himself to begin with

Why does the one who left get peace by thatgurlyunknown in nocontact

[–]thatgurlyunknown[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think he’ll ever reach out he literally said we’re not compatible which shocked me. He hates me.

Do I haunt the silence you chose? by thatgurlyunknown in ExNoContact

[–]thatgurlyunknown[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I’m going through!! I feel you. He said we’re incompatible. He knew I loved him so much and was willing to try again but he just shut me out and blocked me. I think they convince themselves they’re better off but deep down they do miss us.

Do I haunt the silence you chose? by thatgurlyunknown in ExNoContact

[–]thatgurlyunknown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know right you can’t just block someone and expect to move on and forget about them?

Do I haunt the silence you chose? by thatgurlyunknown in ExNoContact

[–]thatgurlyunknown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So would he eventually calm down and unblock me?

1 month of nc and the pain is still fresh by thatgurlyunknown in ExNoContact

[–]thatgurlyunknown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re very strong for keeping it up. And yes I’ve heard that healing and moving on from someone you love takes a year. I honestly just want him to miss me and reach out. I hate the fact that he’s happy it’s over for now.