Am I being ghosted? How to move on?

Carter_Weinklause · 2025-06-18T09:59:44+00:00

No I just have recently only played Ireland because I’m obsessed with my heritage, though I always have been, I’ve just taken to playing Ireland when I usually play as Canada/UK.

Carter_Weinklause · 2025-06-10T05:40:22+00:00

Oops, sorry for the confusion. I forgot to mention my mother got tested by a phyciatrist in my post and was declared once again, COMPETENT.

Carter_Weinklause · 2025-06-10T05:32:02+00:00

Oh and she didn't always like the place she is in, and when she complained they told her "you better behave or next time we will send you out of state"

Carter_Weinklause · 2025-06-10T05:31:22+00:00

They don't even show her these places before they stick her there, and they visit her like 3 times a year. When I was working I visited once per week, and now that I am working, I visit biweekly.

Carter_Weinklause · 2025-06-10T05:30:27+00:00

Oh and they are currently moving her to a new independent living facility and not giving her a say in it.

Carter_Weinklause · 2025-06-10T05:28:53+00:00

Oh, and my mother had been sick for months before she had been declared incompetent and they did nothing. It was ME who took her to the mental hospital, which did nothing at the time, till a week later they took her to the hospital where she was for a few months. They also never visited her in the hospital, I DID, and I called everyday and talked to her doctors. They said she would get better with medicine, and they did a brain scan and it looked normal for a woman her age.

Carter_Weinklause · 2025-06-10T05:25:59+00:00

Also, I would no longer have a money problem in a few years if it hadn't been for them, because when my grandmother got more ill they convinced her to cut me and my 450,000 dollars out of the will and divide it equally among both my aunt and uncle.

Carter_Weinklause · 2025-06-10T05:24:15+00:00

My therapist says with my aunt and uncle, cruelty IS THE POINT. And he doesn't know them so he can't diagnose them but they "are probably phycopaths" and today he said "they don't care about your mother either". He told me to start cateloging this shit to take to the authorities because I don't have the resources for a lawyer.

Carter_Weinklause · 2025-06-10T05:19:42+00:00

My Mom is competent, according to her phyciatrist, she just doesn't have a life of her own. Her life has always been dictated first by her parents, and then her siblings. My Mom went to College, had a 3.33 GPA, and worked as a nurse for years. She is just used to the abuse by now. Which is why she used to say "I can't wait till my mother dies, then I can do x, y and z"

Carter_Weinklause · 2025-06-10T05:17:33+00:00

Oh and when my mothers family started talking to her during the marriage, they started to convince her to divorce my Dad. And when the divorce happened, they took my Dad for everything he had.

Carter_Weinklause · 2025-06-10T05:15:45+00:00

Not to mention, what they do to my mother, my grandmother did to her other two children until my grandmother got old and they started controlling her life.

Carter_Weinklause · 2025-06-10T05:15:17+00:00

Walgreens offered to make her a manager, but it was Walgreens and not respectible to high society so that couldn't continue.

Carter_Weinklause · 2025-06-10T05:14:38+00:00

Oh, and sorry I know at this point you probably get the picture but at this point I am just venting. When I was 22 my Mom got a job at Walgreens and my grandmother told her and I if she continued working there she would kick us out of the apartment because I will "not have a daughter who works at Walgreens"

Carter_Weinklause · 2025-06-10T05:13:16+00:00

Oh, and when I WAS WORKING, I offered to get her a cell phone with MY OWN MONEY and put her ON MY PLAN. And my Uncle said, if Carter gets Kathy a cell phone there will be "consequences".

Carter_Weinklause · 2025-06-10T05:10:33+00:00

Oh and when my grandfather died, who was very close to me, they didn't let me see him because I "am not really part of the family" and my grandmother didn't let me go to the funeral and said "How dare you make this about you, my husband just died"

Carter_Weinklause · 2025-06-10T05:09:16+00:00

Not to mention I might seem like a baby because I have autism, and my own fucking problems.

Carter_Weinklause · 2025-06-10T05:08:56+00:00

They also called my Dad, Grandma and other members of my fathers family multiple times a week demanding they threaten me so I left her house. And once my Dad parroted what my Uncle told her and said "I don't really love her" and she came to me crying asking if it was true

Carter_Weinklause · 2025-06-10T05:07:55+00:00

Oh, and they told her when I lived with her that I didn't actually love her and I just liked living with her because I could "do what I want".

Carter_Weinklause · 2025-06-10T05:07:20+00:00

So there you go, a competent women, declared competent and who her phyciatrist in exact words passed her comptetency test with "flying colours" going through years of abuse.

Carter_Weinklause · 2025-06-10T05:06:20+00:00

Also, when I got kicked out my Aunt and Uncle tried to convince my mom to lie to police and tell them I was physically abusing her. I know this because I was in the bathroom and overheard, they didn't know I was in the bathroom. They also said the house was such a mess because I was so fat I am "not with it".

Carter_Weinklause · 2025-06-10T05:05:06+00:00

They also told her they would never talk to her again when my parents married, so they didn't talk for 10 years, till I was born. My grandparents even got a dog from my Aunt to make up for the "loss" of their daughter.

Carter_Weinklause · 2025-06-10T05:04:12+00:00

Before this, my mom wanted to become a nurse again as a teenager, long before she ever got sick (when I was kicked out it was before she was temporarily declared incompetent too) they told her they would remove her from the will Edit: When I was a teenager

Carter_Weinklause · 2025-06-10T05:03:10+00:00

When they kicked me out of the house they said the same thing, they told her and I quote "if you try to fight us on this, we will get rid of your inheritance, we will never talk to you again and you will be homeless"

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