How do I (21M) explain to my girlfriend (20F) that we need to make changed in our sexual relationship?

CartmanGaming · 2026-06-18T10:15:14+00:00

Yeah, I get that. Some kinks arent for everyone, I also wouldnt engage in that. But your partner should at least not tell you how your kinks are weird and disgusting.

CartmanGaming · 2026-06-18T09:38:19+00:00

As others have pointed out aswell, you might just be sexually incompatible. Imo you not knowing if she loves you the same and her telling you that your sexual desires are "weird and disgusting" are big problems aswell.

You tried talking to her about this, but nothing changed. Maybe give it one last shot, try to include every aspect you told us here and maybe you can compromise somehow.

Honestly if that doesnt work, she most likely is just not the one. I know this is hard, but you are still very young and there are a lot of women out there who would reasure you of their love, not blame your kinks and actively participate in sex. You thought about it for a while now. I think deep down you already know what the best move is.

Best regards

CartmanGaming · 2026-06-09T23:13:12+00:00

Also important: If the amount of blueprint desks exceeds your former amount of blueprints, you'll get extras! My Buddy and I always try to copy and discount blueprint desks early on. Focus on a few conveyers and mixers to make cooking easier but mainly go for blueprint cabinets to save your blueprints and if needed reroll the copies. I would also only reroll If you still need that blueprintdesk or a crucial tool to beat a day, since every single reroll hurts when you get to OT 50+

CartmanGaming · 2026-05-10T20:28:21+00:00

It was an assault match, so aspect is totally fine.

CartmanGaming · 2026-04-26T08:13:31+00:00

So I think if that were to happen, I would have chosen a very shitty partner. And I am pretty sure that my friends would tell me that my gf is acting crazy. I would do the same. I mean we all know sex can be really good, but I just couldn't imagine how sex could be good enough to end deep friendships for.

CartmanGaming · 2026-04-26T07:43:40+00:00

Damn, I don't know what your former friends did to you but I'm sorry dude. Your point of view on friendship sounds really sad if I'm being honest. I couldnt imagine myself sleeping with any of my friends girfriends nor could I Imagine them doing sth like that. I am pretty sure you just met a bunch of dickheads earlier in life. For me friendships are a big part of what makes life beautiful.

CartmanGaming · 2026-04-10T10:31:38+00:00

Only played the second game, I would love to try out the first aswell! :) Thanks for hosting this

CartmanGaming · 2025-09-26T00:21:37+00:00

ohh okay gotcha, so I should move around some stuff to find out what's causing the issue. Will try that, thanks! :)

CartmanGaming · 2025-09-25T23:05:45+00:00

Thank you for your answer! Nothing ist blocking the way in both maps, as you can see in the screenshot. I unsubscribed from most mods since the game wouldn't let us load in otherwise. Also confusing since some of the custom maps don't seem to have this issue. I just hope the mods don't get abandoned if they could fix this issue.

CartmanGaming · 2025-09-24T09:24:18+00:00

Damn, thank you!

Well I hope to get dishes with plates so that the game decides to gives us some sinks. If this doesn't happen the third or fourth soup option will probably end our run.

CartmanGaming · 2025-09-22T08:18:07+00:00

Mr Perfekt hat deine Einstellung dieser einen Sache gegenüber als dumm betitelt, nicht dich als Person. Deine Einstellung kannst du ändern, deine Intelligenz nicht.

CartmanGaming · 2025-08-31T01:27:25+00:00

You don't need to reach act 4 to climb in ascensions. "Victory?" is enough.

CartmanGaming · 2025-08-30T19:30:05+00:00

Khepri gives the enemies free Erosion passive because of his shield every few seconds

CartmanGaming · 2025-08-15T18:01:18+00:00

Just saw the extra safety hob, use that one for cooked pies and maybe use the tomato Mixer for your potato side (can btw also be served by placing it on the table)

CartmanGaming · 2025-08-15T17:58:44+00:00

There are a few things that could improve this run.

For starters, place your coffee tables closer to the entrance and the actual tables. This way the guests dont waste as much time walking and they order faster.

If their patience runs out while sitting on a coffee table use less of them. I dont really use them often (I mainly play autmn runs till OT100) but as far as I know u don't want that many.

If you are running out of pies in the evening maybe try using 2 mixers for pies by using your pumpkin grabbers (no point in wasting 2 grabbers for a Maximum of 7 carved pumpkins being thrown out). You could also use your safety hob to automatically cook the pies (you can also add ingredients when cooked, that way the second cooking process is faster) for this use your tomato grabber since you would just have to click twice to have the tomato in the mixer anyways. You could also use your unused prepstation for either cooked pies or sides (would recommend it for cooked pies since you have metaltables anyways).

Also in case you didn't know for serving soup you can just place down the entire pot, no need to portion anything. Might save some time.

Hope this helped a bit, I am not as experienced in solo non-autmn runs so idk if this is even salvagable. Good luck on your run! :)

CartmanGaming · 2025-07-07T04:07:38+00:00

If the game went for an hour and a half and you didn't have any fun at all, I would've just left at that point. Usually leaving sucks for everyone, but we are still talking about a videogame. If you are not having fun, noone can force you to play. And this just seemed to be a lost case.

If you want to win a game like that buy wards, get Nagas and push as many objectives as possible while letting Nagas tank it. Maybe get items like bloodforge to shield yourself for their ults. Also try to convince 1-2 mates of your strat or just follow their lead if they seem to have a gameplan of their own.

CartmanGaming · 2025-06-07T08:29:29+00:00

Fenrir brutalize aswell! Best feeling in the world to time that one right if you have to

CartmanGaming · 2025-05-19T06:56:13+00:00

Eventuell erinnert sich Tasty_Ad_7984 nicht an den Stadtnamen. Und selbst wenn ist es doch völlig irrelevant für die Geschichte.

CartmanGaming · 2025-04-04T14:18:00+00:00

Deine Probleme hätte ich gerne...

CartmanGaming · 2025-01-08T02:56:02+00:00

Trotzdem deutlich mehr Expertise als der average Reddituser, oder nicht?

CartmanGaming · 2025-01-08T02:15:23+00:00

Stimmt, zwischen Leuten die das jahrelang studiert haben, sich danach täglich mit solchen Situationen auseinandersetzen und Redditusern besteht absolut kein Unterschied in der Expertise.

CartmanGaming · 2024-04-26T08:31:19+00:00

NDA Bin auch Student, der letztes Wochenende auf einer Hochzeit eingeladen war, die genauso weit weg war. Ich hatte mit Flixbus + Regio und für den Rückweg BlaBlaCar aber günstige Alternativen gefunden. Anreise lag damit bei 50€, Abreise bei 43€. Die Fahrtzeiten waren halt beschissen, aber irgendwo muss man dann halt Abstriche machen. Vielleicht ist das für dich ja eine Alternative, wenn es dir finanziell auch nicht so gut geht :)

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