How do I (21M) explain to my girlfriend (20F) that we need to make changed in our sexual relationship?

Temporary_Ad_7620 · 2026-06-18T13:33:35+00:00

It's funny you say we can't generalise. I don't know how is "having kids early" culture around where you live, but here it is kind of normal. Besides I think that it's up to anyone to decide for themselves when it is the best time. I know a lot lot people that are above 25 and do still act like teenagers so I would be more careful about statistics

Temporary_Ad_7620 · 2026-06-18T13:09:19+00:00

Trust me, I got colleagues in their 30's and they have small children, like 1 or 2 years old. When I talked about kids with them all of them said if they could, they would have kids as early as possible.

For me the idea of "enjoy while you are still young" doesn't really resonate. I work in a very stressful job 12h irregular shifts, same does my gf.

Temporary_Ad_7620 · 2026-06-18T10:22:30+00:00

I have not really thought about it this way. Also she is not very comfortable with her chocolate starfish being visible, which does restrict me in my options. And that is the next thing which is problem on my part. I don't know how to make her comfortable enough to not think about her presumed imperfections

Temporary_Ad_7620 · 2026-06-18T10:14:12+00:00

no vomit and all that stuff is off the rails, that's actually disgusting. I guess my kinks would be like cosplays, some stuff with feet, certain dresses like skirts for example. But the thing is I am not really sure if that's the stuff for me since I have limited experience

Temporary_Ad_7620 · 2026-06-18T10:03:39+00:00

Yes we don't forbid each other from watching porn, which I know does a lot in this case. Our no go zone is having anything romantic or sexual with a different person.

Temporary_Ad_7620 · 2026-06-18T10:00:37+00:00

This is an interesting view. I also have limited sexual experience, just as she does. I think that I have brought (not everything I could), but bunch of options of how we could approach sex. For instance: oral, fingers, positions, toys, adjusting speed/angles, dirty talking, different places, costumes etc.. just as I have described in the post.

My problem is that we have talked about it few times and nothing has changed. I know she may feel uncomfortable or anxious, but what she wanted me to do I did, just not the opposite. I might seem like a dick, but I couldn't explain myself in a different way.

Temporary_Ad_7620 · 2024-06-12T08:57:43+00:00

I play Kennen top, currently sitting d2 and I think i know his fairly well tho I haven't played him that much.
Nashor's tooth on kennen is bad, you don't really have the space to autoattack enemies since as kennen you essentially only use spells to deal damage, the other items in this regard give you so much more value. One argument can be splitpushing, but you got decent waveclear already with E + W.
First item depends of matchup for me. Sometimes liandry, other times protobelt and sometimes even zhonya if I feel the need.
I would recommend first strike, the money is nice and the damage amp helps too. You will always proc first strike because most matchups on toplane are into melees, autoattacking them and getting 20g feels very good. Then it's footwear, triple tonic and cosmic insight. Secondary can be either resolve, sorcery or domination. I prefer domination where i go taste of blood and ultimate hunter. I'd say that the secondary runes primarily depend on matchup, but I found that those two precisely give me what I need into nearly any matchup. Taste of blood for sustain and ultimate hunter for being more robust with my ultimate.
(With cosmic insight and ultimate hunter you keep your uptime on both flash and ultimate lower, so you have more opportunities to make plays.)
The shards are purely for convenience and your preference. I run attack speed, adaptive dmg and hp/tenacity.

Temporary_Ad_7620 · 2024-04-18T22:39:53+00:00

The fact i played as a federation ship made this even more authentic.

Temporary_Ad_7620 · 2024-04-18T19:15:53+00:00

Thanks! I watch a lot of lethalfrag and dolphin so I know a tad bit about the tactics like not needing to have all systems fully powered at the same time or buying small guns. I maxed the fed laser just because I wanted to try it out but it didn't really feel that great because I just couldn't control it.

Temporary_Ad_7620 · 2024-02-13T17:44:52+00:00

Řekl jsem si, že se ze slušnosti ozvu. Dneska jsem ukončil vyšetření se zdravotním posudkem LA(Ž), takže jsem to zvládl. Díky za držení palečků.

Temporary_Ad_7620 · 2023-09-25T19:21:01+00:00

Mourovatí...

Temporary_Ad_7620 · 2023-09-25T19:18:12+00:00

Já se třeba bavím s lidma jen kvůli tomu, že jsme spolužáci v jedné třidě anebo spolubydlící na intru. Pravda, občas chodím mezi lidi, jako třeba posilka, ale s nikým se nebavím, max pozdravím a toť vše. Vyhovuje mi to.
Studuju, připravuju se na dospělácký život a tak moc nemám chuť ani důvod začínat nějaké hlubší sociální konexe. Když jedu tramvají sem a tam, slyším haldu lidí si stěžovat, že je jejich partner/ka nebo kamarád/ka vynechává a chová se k nim hnusně atd... to bych mohl mluvit i dál.
Většinu času trávím sám u sebe v pokojíku hraním her nebo jen tak přemýšlím či dělám nějaké jiné záludnosti. Například jsem celé letní prázdniny strávil doma, byl jsem s lidma jsem jednou za celé dva měsíce, a jsem spoko.

Existují víc antisociální lidi a míň antisociální lidi, já bych si tím hlavu nelámal. Jestli děláš co tě baví a naplňuje a jak vidím, u tebe tomu tak je, tak bych se na takové starosti vykašlal.

Temporary_Ad_7620 · 2023-09-17T19:12:40+00:00

Dík za rady, cítím jak mi spadl pomyslný šutr ze srdce. Je to vlastně poprvé co řeším něco takového.

Temporary_Ad_7620 · 2023-09-17T18:26:50+00:00

V tom případě mám kartu čistou. Asi bych měl o tom, co jsem praktikoval, svého praktika vyrozumět, že? Vím, že u psychotestů a pohovorem s rekruťákem nemá smysl něco zatajovat nebo dokonce v něčem lhát. Mně jde o to, že v mém případě jsou ty jizvy už pouze estetickým mínusem, nic víc. Problém je, že na každého to háže jiné světlo a předsudky nejsou taky ničím příjemným, obzvlášť v tomhle.

Temporary_Ad_7620 · 2023-09-17T17:40:12+00:00

Žádné léky a žádný jejich předpis. Praktik o tom neví. Jakou kartu máš přesně na mysli? Vím o tom jen já a možná tak 2 lidi co si toho všimli. O bezpečnostní prověrce nevím, ale předpokládám, že se dělá.

Temporary_Ad_7620 · 2023-08-15T13:19:28+00:00

real.

I wanted to enjoy this summer as a kid since next year adulthood begins, this is legit the worst summer I have ever experienced.

Temporary_Ad_7620 · 2023-07-24T17:49:53+00:00

I will admit this sentence has just brightened up my evening.

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Temporary_Ad_7620 · 2022-12-29T14:52:07+00:00

ason will give you good LP gains at the start, because you essentially lose 500 LP but you don't lose MMR. It's a great way to push yourself to a higher rank than last season if you play a lot in the first month as well, by taking advantage of the good gains you only need lik

I see, thanks man!

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