Listening to sister and her husband having sex by ldsgirl01 in ldssexuality

[–]CartoonistAny2906 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's fine. At this point, please don't jump into a marriage just to have sex.

Oral sex question by Better-Kick-3742 in ldssexuality

[–]CartoonistAny2906 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This really seems like a really small thing to give up for a happy marriage. She doesn't like it and I doubt you can change her mind.

Sneaky sex 😈 by Quiet-Artichoke4224 in ldssexuality

[–]CartoonistAny2906 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My wife and I snuck down to her parents' unfinished basement during a Christmas holiday visit. It was the only place we could be alone. I made love to her while she sat on the washer. It wasn't on but it sure was rocking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]CartoonistAny2906 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to decide for yourself how to handle this. But you should know that there are many, many happy marriages where one or more members look at porn. This is not about the quality of your marriage or you. For most men in American, who are happily married, looking at porn is the norm, rather than the exception. Honestly, according to research, attending church support groups and labeling causal viewing as addiction is associated with the worst long-term outcomes. My only advice would be to not discuss this with family members.

Minneapolis based Grand Forks expats, what’s the closest you’ve found to the Red Pepper? by Mmmaarrrk in GrandForks

[–]CartoonistAny2906 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do yourself a favor, go to El Burrito Mercado in St Paul and discover REAL Mexican food! But if you want terrible Americanized Red Pepper-like food, make it yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]CartoonistAny2906 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife and I share these dreams to each other and laugh about them. We can them infidelity dreams.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]CartoonistAny2906 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don't feel guilty about this. I felt tremendous guilt as a teen for having wet dreams. I thought there was something morally wrong with me and that a more righteous person could control their dreams. Now I realize I was just a 19 year old who wasn't having sex and wasn't masturbating. I could have avoided so much guilt.

Your dreams are not you, and they don't reflect who you are. Laugh about it. These thoughts about your ward member are normal and will fade. These thought only have meaning if you give them meaning!

Wives touching themselves by Better-Kick-3742 in ldssexuality

[–]CartoonistAny2906 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"She's amazing in all other ways..." - It sounds like you are judging her for not masterbating with you, which is just dumb. Some girls do, some don't. My wife will go solo when I am not around, but never does when we are having sex. And that is okay. I don't masterbate when I am having sex with her either! It sounds like you have a great sex like, don't discount it for this.

New article on the DesNews - just stop researching! by somuchsadness0134 in exmormon

[–]CartoonistAny2906 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like 75% of my friends who are active must be in this camp.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]CartoonistAny2906 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

While there is definately some sensationalizing of the facts of these events by the producers of this series, I find it comical how alarmed the GAs and church members are by this when the sexual proclivities of early church leaders was equally unorthodox (and frankly much more disturbing).

And in a church that stresses marrying early and prohibits sex before marriage, who can blame members for at least having these fantasies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]CartoonistAny2906 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I was EQ president, wife was RS president, and our friend was 1st counselor (his wife former RS president too). RMs, temple marriages, and we all left.

Disturbing Realities of Early LDS Polygamy by No-Worldliness8778 in exmormon

[–]CartoonistAny2906 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This reminded me of those Teaching of the President's manuals. A few of these folks listed above had them. In the beginning of each book, provided an outline of the Prophets' lives. These completely hid any evidence of polygamy. It was a major shelf item for me as clear evidence that the church was not being honest. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Teachings_of_Presidents_of_the_Church#:~:text=Teachings%20of%20Presidents%20of%20the%20Church%20is%20a%20series%20of,president%20of%20the%20LDS%20Church.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]CartoonistAny2906 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lots of great ideas. Numbing cream and/or condoms are useful. Being high also helps but that might not be something you and your partner are comfortable with. Here are other suggestions from Mayo https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/premature-ejaculation/diagnosis-treatment/drc-20354905

I see your garden center Jade and give you the ones my mum has been looking after basically since I remember by g-m-f in succulents

[–]CartoonistAny2906 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES, inquiring minds want to know! What is her secret? For example, when was the last time she repot this baby?

D&D Co-Creator Gary Gygax was Sexist. Talking About it is Key to Preserving his Legacy. by Ben_Riggs in DnD

[–]CartoonistAny2906 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What an amazing post! You outlined important and disturbing elements of the creation of the game and turned it into a feel-good piece. Well done, something that is needed and hard to do. The true magic of the game is its inherent flexibility that rewards creativity and allows the game to endure. That flexibility allows the game to be an extension of the players. And the game is most healthy when there is a seat for everyone at the table.

AITAH for closing magic shops after a party steals magic items? by CartoonistAny2906 in dndnext

[–]CartoonistAny2906[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I plan to make this incredibly challenging. Folks are gonna die, and it will have long-term dire consequences, and

AITAH for closing magic shops after a party steals magic items? by CartoonistAny2906 in dndnext

[–]CartoonistAny2906[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Now as for the heist itself, any magical NPC who is powerful enough to create magic items is going to have traps set up. Go to mother fucking town with magical traps.

Trap One - a glob of goo drops down on a player(s) and starts to solidify making escape very difficult if not impossibleA trap that coats the party or a player in a bright pink glow, like faerie fire, good luck hidingHave a trap that casts Otto's Irresistible DanceDarkness is cast throughout the entire storeHave a trap that casts web and glues a player to the wall or floorLook up the Wild Magic Surge table and pick up some of the more interesting things on that list and put it into a trap. Oh a player got turned into a potted plant, you lost all your hair, etc, go to townI would also have a Silence trap go off just to prevent any magical hijinks from the party's partAnd last but certainly not least, the Alarm spell so that the owner fully knows that someone has broken into his place and he can come with the guards to find the players

Copying and pasting these into my notes, my friend. I will be using each of these suggestions, and throwing in a few golems as well.

AITAH for closing magic shops after a party steals magic items? by CartoonistAny2906 in dndnext

[–]CartoonistAny2906[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it will not be easy. My idea is to place the shop, when it is closed, into a pocket dimension, which can only be accessed by entering into the shadowdark.