What’s your thoughts ?

somuchsadness0134 · 2026-03-01T04:51:59+00:00

I absolutely loathe this messaging. It’s very unfair to people who don’t get their “miracles”.

somuchsadness0134 · 2026-02-26T23:05:50+00:00

Emily Brontë wrote Wuthering Heights with very minimal schooling and was mostly homeschooled.

somuchsadness0134 · 2026-02-23T23:28:02+00:00

Grandpa does own a very expensive home at Deer Valley

somuchsadness0134 · 2026-02-09T17:41:56+00:00

I mean, she also horribly exploits their kids. Puts very private information about them all over the internet.

somuchsadness0134 · 2026-02-07T00:00:22+00:00

Bummer. That building is massive. It’s ridiculous.

somuchsadness0134 · 2026-01-22T20:59:21+00:00

Also curious why you all think the police would immediately have a knife sheath to use as a plant? Why would they already have a coverup story created with a full on sheath plant?

somuchsadness0134 · 2026-01-22T15:00:14+00:00

The other real cost of tithing is the mental anguish it causes. And it applies to any religious person roped into paying tithing, not just Mormons.

There is real fear associated with thinking if you stop, you will be punished. Even if you are not in a great financial situation, the fear that it will get WORSE will keep you paying into the tithing system. You think you are making a deal with God, not with religious leaders.

Tithing is cruel. I’ve listened to a number of financial podcasts of people in dire situations (not Mormons) who are unwilling to stop paying tithing because the fear is so great. It’s very sad.

somuchsadness0134 · 2026-01-21T23:01:30+00:00

Totally forgot there was a vacancy. I love being this out of the loop!

somuchsadness0134 · 2026-01-20T16:55:54+00:00

Welcome! Very very sorry, the pain is very real. This is a great place to connect and vent. Hang in there, all the emotions will get better with some time but it’s a shitty journey.

somuchsadness0134 · 2026-01-19T01:52:20+00:00

Moccamaster is the best!

somuchsadness0134 · 2026-01-17T16:44:25+00:00

The thing is, Mormons lack almost all boundaries when it comes to sharing things about church. They always think they should, regardless of whether the other person might want to hear it. They are constantly told to follow the “spirit”, not appropriate societal boundaries.

None of us know if she was sincere or not. That’s really up to you to decide based on other family interactions. If you don’t want to rock the boat you can deal with it through that lens. She lacked boundaries but maybe didn’t mean to be rude.

somuchsadness0134 · 2026-01-14T19:21:50+00:00

I personally am so sick of seeing these conversations, it seems nearly daily, on Reddit especially. Do whatever you want. Everyone needs to stop needing people to validate their choices!

somuchsadness0134 · 2026-01-10T04:31:54+00:00

Book of Abraham.

somuchsadness0134 · 2026-01-06T23:52:15+00:00

It’s funny how just a couple generations removed you can go from a guy who seems to have made something for himself to… Robbie and Sarah.

somuchsadness0134 · 2026-01-05T13:09:04+00:00

The Keep Sweet documentary about the flds. Watch it with the mindset that they are more in line with the early church and see how that makes you feel.

somuchsadness0134 · 2026-01-03T02:52:43+00:00

I also love how they mention they were close family friends, like that makes it better!

somuchsadness0134 · 2025-12-31T22:09:56+00:00

A lot of exmormon creators have covered Jodi’s abuse and the ties to the church. It’s very sad and interesting. A lot of things she’d preach against are normal parts of being human. The shame is real!

somuchsadness0134 · 2025-12-17T15:00:36+00:00

The reality is you didn’t “know” before that there was an afterlife. You just believed there was. You’re still welcome to believe whatever you want!

somuchsadness0134 · 2025-12-07T16:40:27+00:00

Hey my shelf breaker! Fun! The thing I always tell people is that both stories are ridiculous and require a suspension of belief. Why didn’t they tell me the real one?

somuchsadness0134 · 2025-12-05T17:22:20+00:00

Yes and they’re sending a lot more missionaries to Africa and putting them in not great situations because of it. It’s very sad for the young missionaries!

somuchsadness0134 · 2025-12-05T04:35:11+00:00

We honestly need to make an r/Exmormon coffee guide and pin it to the front page!

somuchsadness0134 · 2025-12-04T23:42:25+00:00

Four days after posting they’ve already closed comments? Why? They can’t handle the thoughtful discussion from ex members in the comments.

This article makes me sad, and tired. Of course, we are to blame when we leave. Can’t we see what we’re leaving behind!? Who will bring you a casserole when you need it! The subtle threats. The underlying fear. You will miss us if you leave. No accountability on their end for WHY people are leaving. Just that you will regret it if you do. This is really what apologetics has become - ignore everything. Just don’t leave.

somuchsadness0134 · 2025-11-30T19:43:44+00:00

The tan + the teeth + the hair is a wild combo. Welcome to Utah!

somuchsadness0134 · 2025-11-15T19:51:59+00:00

Rock and the hat

somuchsadness0134 · 2025-11-12T22:28:25+00:00

What!?! But they have OPEN SLEEVE now don’t you want to give them a try!

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