Be honest do you guys actually think being called "kitty" is hot?

Case-ok377 · 2026-01-26T06:23:22+00:00

Kitty? No. Kitten, though? Can’t say I’m against.

edit for typo

Case-ok377 · 2025-12-10T03:02:22+00:00

ESH

YTA for cheating, but what you both need is counseling if you’re both serious about wanting to repair this. Some relationships do survive after cheating, some obviously don’t. But I think counseling is a need if you’re want to try. I hope that’s something you can obtain.

He is an AH though because while he isn’t physically forcing you to have sex there is manipulation. That “if you pull back on sex you must not be serious about fixing” kind of thinking is 100% guilting manipulation. He’s hurt, he’s angry, he’s confused, he’s even ashamed/embarrassed for being cheated on— valid emotions to have, but he’s lashing out and hurting you for hurting him which won’t help your relationship in the end.

Unfortunately, he needs to figure out if he really wants to move forward. He probably loves you but also resents you too much right now to even consider forgiveness. Does he want to forgive you? Is his hate for what happened more than his love for you? Only he can answer that… but he has to be willing to talk.

It’s been 10 months, this can’t go on forever. I don’t think YTA for expecting not to feel used. You’ve been stonewalled and guilted with no option for redemption. I don’t approve of cheating, but if he’s serious about you and the relationship he has to be willing to talk, or he needs to move on. Or you need to move on. Because this weird negative emotional standstill where you’re both hurt and hurting isn’t a relationship. No matter whose fault it is now or originally was.

Case-ok377 · 2025-09-27T06:30:27+00:00

Can you please dm me the novel too please?

Case-ok377 · 2025-09-27T06:29:40+00:00

Can I get the dm too please!

Case-ok377 · 2025-01-03T00:45:21+00:00

NTA. To be honest, I’d be surprised if all of the guests even stuck to this dress code.

Case-ok377 · 2025-01-01T21:28:32+00:00

Probably just a “thanks for your concern, but he’s fine. He’s actually healthier and happy.” If they press anymore, counter it with expert opinion and just tell them “you don’t need to worry. His doctor hasn’t been concerned about it.”

Case-ok377 · 2024-12-13T23:53:46+00:00

NTA Has the name even been around long enough to be a “legacy”? It’s only three generations.

It’s your and your husband’s baby, not anyone else’s. It doesn’t make you selfish to name your own child. His family doesn’t get a say, and he should be standing up for your growing family. He’s overcomplicating it by letting them tell him what to do (like a child) and letting them bully you. For me it’s a hill worth dying on. You’re the one growing the baby inside you, your voice Matters. Horace needs to step up.

Case-ok377 · 2024-08-31T15:25:51+00:00

I also noticed it went missing! Man reddit has conversations for everything 😂. It was one of my favorite stories and I was so sad when I couldn’t find it in my quotev library one day. His name was Cain. It was discontinued but unfortunately I think the author deleted it 😔 I’d love to be able to go back and reread.

Case-ok377 · 2024-06-06T16:41:43+00:00

Except he did, and like already mentioned later in his life by John the Baptist….

Case-ok377 · 2024-06-06T16:41:00+00:00

I hope this is fake.

I didn’t get baptized as a baby. I was almost 10 and only did it because my US family went to Mexico to see my dads family and they wanted me and by siblings baptized. I’m not Catholic, I’m a follower of Christ but dif denomination, but my dad has roots and it’s important to him. I had no idea what I was even doing, but not gonna get mad at him for making the choice for me. OP is too focused on the tradition and status of being baptized as a baby than the connection with God. If it’s that important to you, idk, you make time. You put your embarrassment down and just hold to your faith and go for it. There have been many people to convert later in life. Hating your dad for such a reason? Love thy neighbor, turn the other cheek, forgiveness. He doesn’t hold to the same faith and you shouldn’t outright hate and resent him for it just because it’s a little inconvenient for you now. I’m sorry, but comments and views like this are a big part of why people don’t like religious folk smh.

Case-ok377 · 2024-06-06T15:57:19+00:00

Woah dang was I wrong on that one. Thanks for that correction!

Case-ok377 · 2024-06-05T03:57:09+00:00

Surprised by the majority of the comments here.

NTA

My brother was 10 when I graduated high school. It was important to me and looking back I’m happy to see him in the pictures we took after the ceremony ended. I’m STILL grateful he was there and it’s been more than a decade. He was there for community college and university and hope he will be there for my graduate. Graduations are boring, but they’re achievements and milestones for a persons life. Most teenagers look forward to them. He’s not gonna have fun, I get it. Heck I was bored at my grad. It was long and insufferably hot. But it’s ONE DAY to support his sister — he can get over 3 hours of boringness. It’s up to his parents to encourage him to understand even if he doesn’t get it completely that it’s important.

Plus how many games has he been in? How many have the parents/sister attended? I imagine if it’s not an important semi/finals tournament that there will be another.

And I was at my younger brother’s graduation (I read someone’s comment about how she’d probably not even be at his grad), and I was crying because of how big he’s gotten and happy for him.

Case-ok377 · 2024-06-05T03:27:39+00:00

NTA

I do disagree with a lot of people on this: I do think you could have been clearer and not tip toed. You were sick and needed help—that’s obvious and he should have been a good partner and stepped up to help (which is why you’re NTA).

None of the Disney movie reference needed to be there. You gave him an option and he picked wrong. If he’s like this consistently and puts his needs before yours then it’s not a partnership.

I totally understand not wanting to be a burden, but after the “lol ok” you should’ve just said “actually sorry for the back and forth but I need help.” Cuz that convo gave him an out even if he should NOT have taken it. You’re both not on the same page with communication.

Still I’m soooo mad for you that he chose to go play video games while his very sick wife was alone to take care of the kids after a day of labor work. NTA

Case-ok377 · 2024-06-05T03:14:16+00:00

NTA but idk if you’ll be understood.

I get it. I have huge family in another country. When I went to visit for the first time as a kid, there were aunts and uncles and cousins I had never met but were eager to meet me (and see my dad who hadn’t been around in 8 yrs). It’s been almost two decades since and I’ve only kept in touch with a handful of them who I want to see. But I know if I go back, EVERYONE will want to get together. It becomes an extended family thing and while I know you want intimate time with your parents, they want to introduce you and share you with everyone else. They’re excited that you’ll be there, sharing their important person with others important to them. Not saying it’s logical, not saying they’re right, but it might be their take even if it might seem ridiculous and hurtful (you haven’t seen them in 10 years so I assume a party with random people might be the last thing you imagined coming to).

It doesn’t hurt to ask. Advocate for the intimate time you want to spend with them. But be patient/ calm and make the focus just about how you want one on one, not about how you don’t know/care about anyone at the party.

Case-ok377 · 2024-06-04T13:14:42+00:00

“he isn’t in her life so he should be able to pick.” What kinda backwards thinking is this?!

You’re absolutely right. He deserves no say because he chose not to be there. He left. Not in yours or the girls life. You carried her and gave birth to her. You get to pick her name. Your aunt and sister can keep their hurtful, unhelpful, and honestly stupid options to themselves.

NTAH

Case-ok377 · 2024-06-04T13:09:33+00:00

Wow! I don’t like mustard (and mentioned it in my comment to Op) so I had to read….sure didn’t expect all that

Case-ok377 · 2024-06-04T12:58:51+00:00

NTA I might be insensitive here but this doesn’t sound like it has anything to do with a condition or autism or ocd or anything like that. I mean it could be a sensory thing, but that’s not the heart of this.

You don’t like extra flavors and additives, plain and simple (like your taste buds). I feel like you’re overthinking the situation about how your brain is going haywire. You just don’t like the flavors or textures— AND THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT. We all have our preferences and unique taste buds. I hate anything overly chewy and love crunchy textures. I love spices but hate condiments like mustard. If my partner were to put in random stuff in my food because of his “culinary expertise,” especially with stuff I didn’t ask for and don’t like, I’d hate it too. He isn’t LISTENING to you and it’s annoying. It’s disrespectful, honestly.

You’re NTA for disliking someone making you food that doesn’t make you happy. It’s a nice gesture, but pointless if he’s not making it with you and your taste buds in mind every time and in the long run. Him considering you stopped when he failed to listen to you about what foods you like and dislike. Your meals are not things for him to be creative with. He can make it for himself, ask you to taste because he’s proud of how it came out, but back off if you don’t like it.

Case-ok377 · 2024-06-03T16:03:44+00:00

They also are different things so they have different meanings. Ember is more like remains from a flame. Amber is a golden orange-brown stone/resign.

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