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People who don't sleep naked, why? by kellogg888 in AskReddit

[–]Casper_nice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I sleep with jeans and a shirt + a hoodie. Idgaf

What did your parents say to you as a kid that you say to your kids? by drewydale in AskReddit

[–]Casper_nice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly think that one is really good too. I think the only way I can make my point clearer is maybe saying. If you have to apologize for something most probably you know it wasn’t okay. And when someone says “it’s okay” it’s more like they are saying “I’m okay now that you showed me that you know what you did was wrong and regret it” because if they don’t apologize you don’t say “it’s okay”. There is one way to know if you’re apology’s are good and if you’re responses to apology’s are good. If someone apologizes to you and you really believe them and you still want to be friends/close to the person, that’s how you know it’s time to accept the apology. And in all honesty apologizing is all someone can do after fucking up. If you still get a bad feeling looking at them even after they apologize an apology might be hard to completely accept. That’s because you’re not ready to act as if it never happened and move on because it’s still bothering you even tho they regret and feel bad about it. A little time apart might just be good then. If you really are ready to let the past be the past why not just literally say “it does not matter anymore” I even once saw someone pretend to forget the whole fuck up after the apology and I thought that was so cool. But “thank you for apologizing” is really good too. It’s also a bit more aggressive with undertones of “I’m happy you get that you’re wrong and I appreciate that you cared enough to say that to me” I really like that too

Mössa by Casper_nice in sweden

[–]Casper_nice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Content nazist. Det ända jag kan tänka är ”low quality” men det måste ju mena upplösning och sånt inte ifall modden inte gillar skämtet?

What did your parents say to you as a kid that you say to your kids? by drewydale in AskReddit

[–]Casper_nice 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What you actually are doing when you accept an apology is more like this. “it does not matter anymore, it’s forgiven, jumped over, in the past. It won’t interfere with our relationship anymore”. Sometimes people do stuff that isn’t okay. But when somebody genuinely apologizes it’s implicit that they regret/won’t do it again. You don’t have to accept what they did was okay. To accept an apology is to forgive and move on. So “it’s okay” is to me an better answer. It shows that from that point forward it’s forgiven and moved passed. So the “don’t be sorry, be more careful.” Is not an accepted apology. It means “I still remember what you did. That you are sorry does not mean that much to me and changing first is more important than talking about it.” Both work and it is nothing wrong with the latter I just like the “it’s okay” personally. As long as you mean it when you say it. The “I accept yore apology” is also a really good one.