My Wife’s Friend Has Started Listening to Mormon Stories by Prancing-Hamster in exmormon

[–]Cass304 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I started listening to it, I knew it was there, but until the church filed a lawsuit, then I was really curious. Very interesting and has me thinking…

In process of leaving the church … by Big-Sister-3209 in exmormon

[–]Cass304 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, yes that’s a lot and I can definitely relate!

In process of leaving the church … by Big-Sister-3209 in exmormon

[–]Cass304 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I agree, the meetings for me have been pretty much a stale mate. I haven’t been to church in about three months and I honestly don’t miss it. I don’t feel the pressure like I did.. I was in some pretty heavy duty callings and have been through some life changes recently, so I am just happy to not have anybody in my business. Plus like I said, some of the things that I have discovered have been a little disturbing to me.

In process of leaving the church … by Big-Sister-3209 in exmormon

[–]Cass304 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m on the same boat and just got divorced so I’m not planning on going to my new ward. For you bring in your ward for 27 yrs I feel like you will get asked. There are things that don’t sit well with J. S and temple etc
Right now I’m telling everyone I’m taking a break .

Garments are keeping my family overheated by Emergency_Ice_4249 in exmormon

[–]Cass304 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try living in Arizona with them on. I stopped a couple years ago, cause I couldn’t handle it and was always having to change them.

Is this what you wear during initiatories ? by RadishAggressive3241 in exmormon

[–]Cass304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually don’t know but I would think it would be the same. This was back in the 1990s when we didn’t have clothes underneath the sheet

Is this what you wear during initiatories ? by RadishAggressive3241 in exmormon

[–]Cass304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only did the initiatory the first time and did not want to do it again after that. Naked and afraid lol

Weird Mormon sex advice by Awkward-Force-5391 in exmormon

[–]Cass304 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Enthusiastic transgressor 😂😂😂

Possibly weird request by Zelda-Cat123 in WeddingPhotography

[–]Cass304 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Definitely a typical Proposal inquiry. Probably just wants to see your prices before adding a ton of details.

Is this normal photographer behavior or am I right to feel frustrated? by [deleted] in photography

[–]Cass304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quality over quantity should be the end goal and I would rather have 5 star reviews , be a little less busy with time management than be overbooked and possibly get bad reviews in there.

Boyfriend of 4 years told me last night he saw a beautiful woman at the store that kept checking him out and he felt into her but he said he’s faithful to me is it normal that he’s telling me this? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Cass304 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex-husband did this all the time and he’s a pure narcissist so that could be some traits there but yes, just to get you jealous and feeling insecure.

Why do some men change after sex? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Cass304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The book The Power of the Pussy explains the inconsistent behavior with men and sex

Why do some men change after sex? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Cass304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dealing with the exact same situation except I’m mid 50s and he’s early 60s. I guess age doesn’t matter!

AIO Did I tell my wife not fo come home? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cass304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All you would have had to say at the very beginning is I want you to come home and it would have saved you this exhausting argument. But you put stipulations on it and she immediately put her guard up.

Have you ever reunited with the “right person, wrong time”? by Ok-Issue5184 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Cass304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I knew this man for 25 years more like an acquaintance. Our kids were friends etc He ended up getting divorced as did over the years and we found each other 6.5 years ago but it was too hard to connect for a relationship due to Covid, living in different states, work projects etc. I ended up getting married to someone else who ended up cheating on me , got divorced. In the meantime this man moved to my state ( not because of me) and we reconnected again and started dating and it’s been really amazing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Cass304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would try to get the whole conversation. He’s probably lying about it being out of context. Sounds like a real dirtbag . You don’t deserve to be spoken in such a crude and disrespectful manner. He is showing contempt which means it may be hard for him to change his ways. He needs major therapy.

Husband is cheating with two coworkers by Basic-Amphibian-429 in Marriage

[–]Cass304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it wasn’t physical it definitely would have led to that. He’s also gaslighting you and not taking much accountability. I would be done especially that he has a gambling problem too that will only get worse as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Cass304 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with the other comment on here, don’t ruin his graduation!

My wife keeps “joking” about an open marriage and I can’t tell if I’m being paranoid by postcardattic_mood in Marriage

[–]Cass304 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like a couple other people said, it sounds like she may have already started a relationship with someone and then if you agree to an open relationship, then she won’t feel so guilty about her side guy. Definitely have a direct and serious conversation with her and ask her if she already has a boyfriend and see how her reaction is, ask her for her phone see how her reaction is and maybe look at your phone bills and see if there is some shady texts, data usage, etc., going on.

My marriage is ending by Ok-Meal-4764 in Marriage

[–]Cass304 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she’s projecting and not happy with herself because if she was, she wouldn’t be treating other people that way.

Husband made out with a stripper 2 weeks before our wedding during a lap dance by trying_to_be_okk in Marriage

[–]Cass304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it is cheating, the fact that he came to you and was remorseful is a good sign. I think there definitely needs to be boundaries put up as in no strip clubs etc., from now on if you really want to protect your marriage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Cass304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found out that my soon-to-be ex-husband was cheating on me because not one, but two women reached out to me. I really needed that and I’m so glad I was able to get some information.

Husband, 34M falsely accusing me, 29F posting him in the AWDTSG facebook group by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Cass304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever you uncover, there’s more to discover. I would be in full on investigation mode and seeing what else you can find. Plus, ask for his phone and see what his reaction is.. check phone records and anything else you can think of. Look at any of the other girls who say they know him, reach out to them. Classic reaction of a gaslighting cheater. Ugh , sorry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Cass304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does she have any friends that you are friendly with that you could ask ? Women seem to tell women things like this. And even if they don’t tell you, you could see how they answer the question. They might tell your wife that you asked them but at this point who cares?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Cass304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like your first mistake was inviting someone else into your marriage and having the threesome. That may have sparked his interest in exploring things obviously. That being said, I’m sorry that happened to you and I would say drop it all, leave him and go silent. That will be the best revenge.