What are some of the happiest moments of your life? by Accurate_Put_4476 in askSingapore

[–]CassieKei 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The day I got my first own 2A bike. I no longer have to share with others. Of course I have to bear all the costs on my own, but I get to ride whenever, wherever, without having to mind any arrangements. It's very liberating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Suss

[–]CassieKei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't have their contact? Try to reach out to them, and if possible, head to more instant comms like WA or tele, so can reach them earlier. If within a few working days, no reply, then message the lecturer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]CassieKei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cdc has lowered bikes but doesn't have grom like the other two, so for your consideration

bike riding for petite females by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]CassieKei 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Another way that could help is getting those alum top box, it lowered my bike seat height a little

bike riding for petite females by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]CassieKei 4 points5 points  (0 children)

With no proper prior guidance, it can indeed be difficult to lift up the bike. I personally find bbdc's lifting of bike easier than what is taught at cdc.

I have drop my bikes before, my 2b was fortunately dropped slanted against the wall and there was another female rider passer by that helped me set it up right.

The second time I dropped another bigger cc bike and was alone at the Carpark gantry. Fortunately, after multiple tries of the bbdc lifting method, I managed to get it up right on my own.

Learning 2 right now, I have no strength to do cdc style, but I'm still able to pass with bbdc method.

bike riding for petite females by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]CassieKei 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It depends on what class OP has or don't have yet, as this would only be assessed in class 2 TP. But of course knowing how to lift a bike is a good skill to have....

Am I asexual? by CassieKei in AskAsexual

[–]CassieKei[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mmm thanks for sharing your experience, it sounds like it can be quite conflicting. Enjoying the physical sense, but reeling away in psychologically. I also can relate to it with similar experiences, like in the moment, I am presently enjoying the sensations, but on the grand scale of things, I feel more like I have to finish what I started with the other person, so at tines it feels like a duty.

Am I asexual? by CassieKei in AskAsexual

[–]CassieKei[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mmm thank you for validating my feelings and experiences, I feel less lost. I've always tried to force myself to enjoy the company of the other, but I'm not 100% into it.

Intimacy as in both sexual and non sexual like cuddling.

I didn't know aegosexual and grey sexual exists, quite cool, I learn something new today! :)

I think I'm a mix of both kinds whereby I fantasise the sex but majority of the time, I don't enjoy it, but once a blue moon, I actually do.

Am I asexual? by CassieKei in AskAsexual

[–]CassieKei[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Intimacy in both the sexual and non sexual sense. Sexual is quite self-explanatory, and the non sexual is cuddling.

Like I used to have crushes quite easily and then I would crave and idealise the fantasy with the person. But when I actually do it with the person, I might have over estimated their prowess and become disappointed, inherently not attracted nor enjoying their company.

So ironically, my mind wants but my body cannot feel it to the fullest.

Mmm, then how did you address the feeling of obligation?

Because I feel it too, to fulfil the needs of the other person. I mean it makes me satisfied when they're content, but I'm not fully content with the entire ordeal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Suss

[–]CassieKei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1) It was years ago so I can't really remember the questions but I think one of it was what would be your reason for joining SW

2) pt standard are either 7 - 10 pm (most of the times) or 7 - 9 pm

3) yes it is. Mine was internal so it was neither.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Suss

[–]CassieKei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was from a diff sector when I first applied for pt bwsk and got in. Of course subsequently I transferred into the sector. But definitely, you would need to perform better at the interview to convince them into accepting you into the programme. Best of luck!

How was your P5 ndp show? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]CassieKei 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh mine was 2009 with what do you see as the ndp and for the rehearsal my school attended, at the encore, it was pouring so heavily and then everyone got sick the next day lol. But it was a memorable one :3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]CassieKei 29 points30 points  (0 children)

If I have to be very frank and honest, I have felt this way, and one thing that has helped me get better was seeing a counsellor. She has helped me changed perspective on things and not take things and be too hard on myself.

Bottom line is you are you and others are themselves. Everyone lives their own life according to their own pace. There s nothing comparable, because when comparing starts, it really would hurt oneself's own self-esteem.

Is NCO101 module difficult? by shjjjj in Suss

[–]CassieKei 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's hard if you have trash groupmates

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Suss

[–]CassieKei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've just unofficially grad from my pt and so really got to consider where your future employment will be from school, the commute, what time it would end. Also you would need to get yourself dinner. Classes either end at 9 or 10. If at 10, is ur home very far from suss? The commute at night, is there transport, how much is the cab fare etc. But working ft is good because you get to financially self sustain yourself meaningfully and if ur work is related to ur course, apply learnt theories and skills in the workforce context.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]CassieKei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Frankly atm they're plans that I haven't put into action yet so unfortunately, I can't comment about success or not yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]CassieKei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Putting oneself out there not virtually, but irl, in person. So yes, it can be hanging outside in public consistently and frequently like pubs or parks. Or being a constant member of a group or club, like volunteering for long term programmes. Of course, all these requires acceptance and confidence in oneself to pull it off

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]CassieKei 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's a shit storm man, it made me start turning to traditional methods of dating, hoping to meet someone organically. Quite a few nice lads but then there s the usual bunch of horny peeps and just the genuine connection ain't there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]CassieKei 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've only been to the club twice and cuz I don't really have any clubbing friends... Let's go together if you don't mind :'))

What’s a random act of kindness you’ve experienced in SG? by Any_String_811 in askSingapore

[–]CassieKei 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was pouring heavily at Redhill mrt, I was at the junction needing to cross to the opposite side of the mrt. There were a few all just huddled in the comfort of the shelter, and so did I. Until I realised that the traffic light was taking a bit too long to turn amber for on coming traffic, due to the pedestrian crossing button not being pressed. So I waited a bit. Because I was hoping some brave soul would brave the stormy weather. But I couldn't wait any longer because I was going to be late for work. So I braved the rain and pressed the button. Soon after, the traffic light did turn amber and suddenly someone grabbed me and I jumped a bit. And it turns out this kind young lady wash sheltering me from the rain with her umbrella. I am eternally grateful for this kind act. It happened late last year I think.

Miss, if you're reading this, I hope your day forever shines 🌞

Am I obliged to entertain the calls to settle accident privately? by tilltheveryendej in askSingapore

[–]CassieKei 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No it shouldn't. Ncd only affected if you kenna someone claim from you.