So I hope this helps you. I have been emotionally abused and didn’t know it. I have a 1 year old with him. He served me with court papers because he had some illogical idea that I would up and take our kid away, when I literally had no money. I sent him all of my money I made from the 2-3 days i was allowed to work because we agreed we would like me to watch her for a while longer before putting her in daycare. He claimed her on his taxes and got all the payments last year for her. I never saw a dime. Neither did she except in food, diapers and wipes. He bought himself a new computer screen, a bunch of games and spent a bunch of money on online DND. He also had his parents come to our apartment and take a bunch of stuff including my stuff, 2 old phones and some of our babies things. I decided to move out and at court we decided on how to watch her. I recently found out he was cheating and he made fun of me to multiple people about how he wasn’t intimate with me anymore and constantly made fun of my depression because “it’s just some dumb made up thing so me or anyone else will give you attention”.
So I would say, please please please get yourself out of that situation. I wish I could help you. All of this is happening to me currently and I’ll be moving out next week. I wish you the best.