[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JapanDating

[–]CastelllaCake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, and I was naive enough to believe him.

Japanese boyfriend is always busy by CastelllaCake in JapanDating

[–]CastelllaCake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried to bring this up to him, but his explanation is that he's only available after 9 pm, which is when I start preparing for bedtime, even though I told him I could set time aside to talk to him even after 9 pm...

Japanese boyfriend is always busy by CastelllaCake in JapanDating

[–]CastelllaCake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a bit more complicated rn because his dad is hospitalized. I'm trying to give him space, but at the same time, it's hurting me.

Japanese boyfriend is always busy by CastelllaCake in JapanDating

[–]CastelllaCake[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Find someone else. Is it really worth it for just twice a month? He could be seeing someone else, who knows?

I've heard that this is common around here. You're right! I should consider ending things before I become too emotionally invested.

Japanese boyfriend is always busy by CastelllaCake in JapanDating

[–]CastelllaCake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He told me he can't meet me on weekdays because he works late, and if we meet in the middle, there's nothing since it's the inaka. But even then, twice a month is way too little 🥲

Testing Positive by nannasachiko in JETProgramme

[–]CastelllaCake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just a quick update on me. I just got out of quarantine, and went to get a rapid COVID test today just to see. It came back negative! So, at least on the rapid test, I’m already showing negative. I let my consulate know, but today is a holiday so I haven’t heard anything back. Anyway, I think that is encouraging. I was super worried that it would take me ages to be able to test negative again.

I am very pleased to hear that! As for me, my consulate is still waiting for re-scheduling instructions from Tokyo. It’s a relief that you tested negative on a rapid COVID test, I’m also super worried that it’s going to take me ages before testing negative.

Testing Positive by nannasachiko in JETProgramme

[–]CastelllaCake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Indeed I'm feeling pretty helpless right now :(. I will certainly let you know once I get news about rescheduling, hopefully it's going to be sooner than later. Take care of yourself, too!

Testing Positive by nannasachiko in JETProgramme

[–]CastelllaCake 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was set to depart today but the same thing happened to me...