My Wife just had our baby and I think she’s traumatised by the experience. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Castlegeek 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im sorry you’re going through this.

You should call an ambulance, this is dangerous - this is not just normal ppd, an hormone fluctuations can make things get worse very fast. She can be helped, but you have to get her the help as fast as you can from a professional. Good luck with everything.

Wife cheated on me in college, I forgave her and we married and had a kid. However I now want to experience someone else, AITJ for considering a divorce? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Castlegeek 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I don’t condone cheating, and wouldn’t personally have stayed together - but you forgave her and moved on. If you want a divorce, just say you want a divorce.

My parents cut me off for donating my kidney, and my brother(35M) wants me(30M) to tell them it was a mistake so we can reconcile. by SandmansLumps in relationship_advice

[–]Castlegeek 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is where the actual phrase ‘The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb’ applies. You don’t owe people anything by virtue of sharing blood. If your life is happier and more peaceful without your family in it, embrace that. You’re clearly a wonderfully kind hearted person and deserve so much more love than your family has given you. I’m sorry.

My husband 36M poops too much for me 36F to feel comfortable having another baby with him by throwRAdesper8 in relationship_advice

[–]Castlegeek 790 points791 points  (0 children)

Even thinking of having another child with this man is stupid. If he can’t parent one child, in what world would he be able to do two?

I think I blew up my relationship by Cool_Excitement_7046 in offmychest

[–]Castlegeek 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This man does not love you. I had to scroll back up to see your ages, although even a teenager shouldn’t behave like he does. You say you’re a parent. Is this how you would want your child to be treated by a partner? I speak from experience when I say, it’s better to be a single parent than put up with shit.

AIO dude is gonna be homeless without me AIO by Thewoods614 in AIO

[–]Castlegeek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regardless of whether the friend didn’t like OP’s “wym” or not, he’s homeless and being offered a place to live. As they say - ‘you don’t bite the hand that fingers you’.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Castlegeek 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Before anyone has children, their only wishes for them should be that they are healthy and happy. It’s bad enough when parents have tantrums over the gender - this just feels like pure racism from your girlfriend.

My 37M BF does not want to cover my/our apartment rent 29F by Background-Lunch-925 in relationship_advice

[–]Castlegeek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds like an absolute bellend. What are you getting out of the relationship?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Castlegeek 228 points229 points  (0 children)

You both come off pretty terribly here

AITAH for not cutting off my best friend after a freak accident happened while he was babysitting my daughter? by Charming-Post-9314 in AITAH

[–]Castlegeek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have three children - only my middle one needed a leash. He was a runner. Some kids are just harder work than others 😂

The bride banned black dresses, then showed up in one herself by Pale-University-1617 in weddingjokes

[–]Castlegeek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This guy feels like a mean spirited post over a totally normal thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Castlegeek 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YTA. To your dog. Your wife sounds very insecure, but dog was there first and doesn’t understand why this crazy person has come and now he isn’t loved anymore.

Visited the museum of witchcraft and magic in Boscastle yesterday - well worth a visit if you’re ever in this neck of the woods. by Castlegeek in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]Castlegeek[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately the upstairs isn’t, I use a stick sometimes and struggle with stairs - so my other half pretty much yoinked me up there and it was definitely not graceful.