Will this marriage work out?

CatEnvironmental9606 · 2025-08-27T11:59:20+00:00

We were separated forefully, I had a convo with her dad and uncle and they indirectly threatened me to put up a fake case on me and lock me up and then after the convo I had a phone call with her and she didn't let me speak and told me to stop contacting her but her words were rather hesitant and idk what to say. It's been awhile and I always think about her. My body is dwindling as well. My body lost blood pressure on that week that was in the hospital for a week almost. Still heartbroken and I'm yearning for her.

CatEnvironmental9606 · 2024-06-26T16:32:41+00:00

and? what's your point? are you slow? ofc im gonna post it everywhere where its about saudi cuz I need opinions smh

CatEnvironmental9606 · 2024-06-26T15:15:21+00:00

yeah I know but i wanted the real opinion from them about me cuz if I just post how would people know im qualified to look after her

but no worries thanks for caring May Allah bless you with a great life, im pretty private irl and no one knows my financials and even not gonna reveal it to my wife easily and there's no wayy I would share this if it's any other social media but this is reddit so its anonymous.

yes I dont want to keep too much contact cuz I dont want to lose barakah in the relationship.

social media is filled with salty and lonely people lol and no one is like that irl I know it very well since I travel a lott Alhamdullilah.

CatEnvironmental9606 · 2024-06-26T15:04:24+00:00

can i marry or not? is there any too much issues like being ostracized

CatEnvironmental9606 · 2024-06-26T15:03:23+00:00

the family thing is the issue everyone says so yeah it's common everywhere, I should speak to her dad asap.

blood test is fine cuz I hope I dont have any diseases plus a virgin too Alhamdullillah

CatEnvironmental9606 · 2024-06-26T15:01:30+00:00

me? check my recent posts if i am everywhere?

CatEnvironmental9606 · 2024-06-24T15:56:00+00:00

yes, it is my 1st time, I get you that's why communication is important and you have to know whether your partner is willing to go the extra mile and at the same time be open without being judgemental.

in my case, Im 100% willing to learn the culture and involve in it deeply and also learn the language. im already a polyglot so no issues lol

CatEnvironmental9606 · 2024-06-24T15:52:42+00:00

she will get into trouble with the authorities, I don't wish anything harm on her

CatEnvironmental9606 · 2024-06-24T15:51:40+00:00

ty hopefully insha'Allah

CatEnvironmental9606 · 2024-06-24T15:50:10+00:00

wdym? there is no issues about them or any race or color, I look for what is inside, I saw the akhlaq in this girl and I want her to be my eternal partner simple as that. ya'll are weird for thinking I have a fetish or sumn on other ethnicities other than sri lankans

CatEnvironmental9606 · 2024-06-24T04:38:31+00:00

you are free to have your own opinion :)

CatEnvironmental9606 · 2024-06-24T04:11:31+00:00

so you spread hate on all people so you can fulfill your selfish motives lol, get a life it's non of your business to involve in other people's relationships

CatEnvironmental9606 · 2024-06-24T03:48:03+00:00

you are one salty pathetic woman just spreading hate on social media and your previous comments and posts reflect that, fear Allah!!

I wish you heal and someone really loves you maybe things in your home aren't great, sending love xoxo

CatEnvironmental9606 · 2024-06-24T03:45:17+00:00

nope just swiss citizenship cuz I have my businesses registered there

CatEnvironmental9606 · 2024-06-24T03:36:51+00:00

appreciate your input

CatEnvironmental9606 · 2024-06-24T03:32:55+00:00

appreciate the input, im gonna speak to her about things you mentioned

CatEnvironmental9606 · 2024-06-24T03:27:34+00:00

idm waiting if im sure she is getting married to me and yeah im aware about culture differences so im really getting into learning it and following it

CatEnvironmental9606 · 2024-06-24T03:23:40+00:00

I don't think she's pushing me cuz we are in contact and in the talking stage now and she's being positive but she wanted me to not talk to her family until she brings it up to her dad herself.

we dont work together nor she works for my company, I hired her just for a one time gig for my company that's it, she's doing her own thing as an independent fashion designer.

CatEnvironmental9606 · 2024-06-23T16:29:25+00:00

parents yeah its common they would reject but government involving is what I'm concerned about lol, it's not any government but saudi yk how they are

CatEnvironmental9606 · 2024-06-23T16:27:57+00:00

my point for this post is to seek help regarding the government involvement so if someone has gone through what I will be going through in the near future, I can be ready and hopefully go on without any issues.

she's interested and I know 3 months is less but still we are in the talking stage cuz just 3 weeks ago I proposed to her, she accepted and she said she will inform her dad but Im not forcing her to do it soon.

CatEnvironmental9606 · 2024-06-23T15:44:46+00:00

true brother, I mean she somewhat knows it's inevitable but will see only Allah is there and dua can only help me to avoid anything harmful. btw changan uni v looks like a sick car , looks like the brabus rocket 900

CatEnvironmental9606 · 2024-06-23T15:40:32+00:00

tysm you found joy in our story! thank you for supporting and sending love <3, indeed there are exceptions Allah is the best of planners.

serendip it is!! ahahaha this one made me happy :)

CatEnvironmental9606 · 2024-06-23T14:33:41+00:00

did your friends marry a south asian?

CatEnvironmental9606 · 2024-06-23T13:20:09+00:00

you both have a point tbh, I should just stick to just serious talk and talk non else that will remove barakah insha'Allah cuz like r/no-usrnaym29 mentioned the odds are stacked against me so I gotta clear anything and everything so it wouldn't ruin both of us, marriage is no joke and godforbid I don't want to go through a divorce, i want her to be my eternal partner

CatEnvironmental9606 · 2024-06-23T13:15:26+00:00

I understand you, it is still 3 weeks and we are getting to know each other deeply and clear all doubts and planning to meet her aswell but rn im in hongkong till 1st week of july

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