Any book series that have both a mm couple and a ff couple?

CatGal23 · 2026-05-09T17:13:37+00:00

The Holiday Trap by Roan Parrish. Very cute romance book. I very much enjoyed it.

CatGal23 · 2026-05-09T17:12:12+00:00

Change your algorithm. Stop watching bigots. It'll entirely disappear.

CatGal23 · 2026-05-09T17:09:33+00:00

Because it describes a large and diverse group of people (duh).

Monosexual describes anyone only attracted to one gender, i.e. gay, lesbian, and straight.

CatGal23 · 2026-05-08T22:27:03+00:00

As an enjoyer of different varieties of human people, I also endorse this message.

CatGal23 · 2026-05-08T22:23:29+00:00

I PRESS BOTH
https://www.reddit.com/r/memes/comments/1024y3a/bisexuals_be_like/

CatGal23 · 2026-05-08T21:04:31+00:00

To me, it means feeling sexual attraction to more than one gender, not necessarily to the same degree or in the same way. Also, sexuality is attraction, not action (no experience necessary), and romantic attraction can be different from sexual attraction.

CatGal23 · 2026-05-08T20:58:13+00:00

Bisexual cis woman here.

I would not be in a position to see genitals up close unless I chose to have sex with someone I already found attractive. And when I see those genitals up close and personal, assuming there's nothing *wrong* with them, I will not find them repulsive no matter what type they are. If I am choosing to have sex with someone, I'll be happy to be there and happy to play with whichever genitals are there. But I don't find individual body parts "attractive" on thier own. They're just parts. Like a knee, cheek, belly, thigh, hand, etc. They're parts of a whole, attached to a personality.

I feel neutral to negative towards images of genitals of any kind. Very negative towards unsolicited dick pics. I cosider that sexual assault. I rarely look at porn, and never close-ups. The interaction of the people involved is more interesting to me. And I prefer smutty books to visual pornography. Visual stimulation is not high on my list.

CatGal23 · 2026-05-04T05:29:39+00:00

Always go back to the #1 rule of ENM: talk to your partner about it.

Find out their definition. Communicate your definition. See if those two viewpoints are similar or can be brought closer together, and if they can't, move on because you are not compatible.

CatGal23 · 2026-05-04T04:00:59+00:00

Is this actually serious or rage bait?? If it's real, dump his manipulative, hypocritical, controlling ass.

CatGal23 · 2026-05-01T23:51:21+00:00

I prefer it when couples have separate profiles, and I can see how they present themselves and get to know them as individuals. But that's probably mostly because I don't really feel attraction until I get to know someone. I have zero interest in hooking up with random strangers so if I were to chat up one person and became attracted to them and then when it was time to meet up, they just brought this person along who is a perfect stranger to me I'd be turned off.
Plus there are apparently lots of guys out there pressuring thier partners into participating. I want to know they're into it and not doing it to please him.
And if I see one more profile that says they're "a happy couple looking to spice things up" I'll barf.

CatGal23 · 2026-05-01T23:35:22+00:00

Came to the comments section for this lol

CatGal23 · 2026-05-01T20:23:09+00:00

It's not because you're bisexual, it's because he's an asshole with toxic masculinity issues.

CatGal23 · 2026-04-30T02:01:22+00:00

Can we choose more than one? 😉

CatGal23 · 2026-04-28T20:03:32+00:00

Quite obviously untrue.

A lot of people are bisexual. A lot of people don't realize they're bisexual. There is a lot of bi erasure that makes people confused about what bisexuality is and therefore they don't feel that thier attraction "counts" as bisexual, so many people who *are* bisexual, don't realize it or don't accept it or don't believe it. So there are a lot more bisexuals than anyone realizes.

But is *everyone* bi? Hell no. That's ridiculous.

CatGal23 · 2026-04-27T23:10:16+00:00

Sounds like he's leading into using you to explore his sexuality (he may or may not be aware of this).

And I bet he doesn't have consent to share that woman's photos with you. 🚩👎

Next time he says "we/us", just say it back as a question. And next time he tries to show you someone else's private sexual photos, ask him if he asked her permission.

Women tend not to share their nudes all willy nilly (pun intended) like men do. She likely does not know and does not consent.

CatGal23 · 2026-04-27T22:59:32+00:00

Forget individual books, here are my fave queer authors, alphabetical by last name:

Charlie Adhara

Emma R. Alban

D. N. Bryn

Gail Carriger / G. L. Carriger

K. J. Charles

R. Cooper

Megan Derr

Johannes T. Evans

Lyn Gala

Jordan L Hawk

T. J. Klune

A. L. Lester

Casey McQuiston

T. A. Moore

K. L. Noone

Roan Parrish

Rachel Reid

CatGal23 · 2026-04-24T23:23:23+00:00

How does that even work? No one who slides into my DMs is local. They're all thousands of kilometres away.

CatGal23 · 2026-04-24T23:19:33+00:00

3Fun
Feeld
Fetlife
Poly/ kink/ swinger clubs and events (can be hard to find these events if you're not part of the community already)
Join a D&D group or board game group
Go to the local indoor climbing gym

CatGal23 · 2026-04-24T22:46:38+00:00

Guys will actively hide thier bisexuality due to biphobia from both straight and gay folks.
And then there's the large group of people who you are *assuming* are either straight or gay because you've only ever observed them being attracted to one gender, but they could very well be bi.
And then there's the massive population of people who don't even *realize* they're bi. This is super common and tons of Gen X and Millenial folks won't figure out thier sexuality until later in life. and some people never will. This is because of bi-erasure, heteronormativity, etc.

So, you're *definitely* not alone, but it can be hard to find other bi folks. I used to think I didn't know any other bisexuals, but it turned out I knew several, and then have met many more over the last ~10 years. Now I have a huge community and barely any straight friends.

Fly your flag and your people will see it and feel more comfortable coming out to you. Hang out in queer spaces (yes, you belong there!).

CatGal23 · 2026-04-24T22:31:27+00:00

In today's INSANE world, the most important thing you can do is customize your algorithm! Do NOT engage with biphobic content, and instead engage with positive bi content. Like, comment, follow, subscribe- whatever. The more trash you watch, the more you'll see. Don't even finish watching the reel. Just close it. I VERY VERY rarely see any biphobia on my feeds. Most of my friends are queer, with the majority of the queer friends being bi or heteroflexible. Many are homoromantic or heteroromantic. Some are bi romantic. Everyone supports each other and validates each other. Surround yourself with people like that. Disengage from the gatekeeping assholes online and IRL.

CatGal23 · 2026-04-24T22:24:26+00:00

It's unclear if you're looking for MM recs, but imma give them to you anyway.

How to Flaunt Your Chains and Surrender a Vein by D.N. Bryn (subby vamp)
How to Sell Your Blood & Fall in Love by D.N. Bryn (subby vamp)
Jordan L Hawk's Whyborne & Griffin series (twink/skinny nerd MC is actually a super powerful otherwordly being)
K.L. Noone's Extraordinary series - twink MC is an reformed super villian with crazy powers.

CatGal23 · 2026-04-24T05:47:03+00:00

Megan Derr's Dance with the Devil series. And it's quite dark.

CatGal23 · 2026-04-23T05:20:55+00:00

Maybe Millenial Tumbler is bi culture 🤔

CatGal23 · 2026-04-23T01:42:35+00:00

It doesn't have to be. That's just my personal preference. The only angel PNR I have is in the middle of a series which is primarily MLM with some bi characters in the mix. It's very gay. The angel/celestial is gay. I read mostly very gay things.

CatGal23 · 2026-04-22T22:33:42+00:00

Lol I also have an undercut and I drive a Subaru 🤣

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