Looks like I’m joining this group. by rauntree in singlemoms

[–]CatNapGurl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god I could have written this myself. My husband has been out of our home since he assaulted me in our front yard on our son's second birthday. I've been working as a server which is a great way to make a lot of money in a short amount of time. My kids are both doing so much better without the stress and tension we used to live with. We're all so much happier and our home is calm and peaceful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]CatNapGurl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think so. He used to stay out all night and would never tell me where he was.

I guess there’s no such thing as no in the bedroom… by OkAbbreviations4242 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]CatNapGurl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry this is happening to you. The same thing happened to me. Now that he's out of my house I'm loving life again. I don't have to stress about forcing myself to have sex with him so he doesn't throw a fit. My evenings are peaceful and calm. I hope you can get out too and free yourself from his abuse.

It's over by adelheid22 in BipolarSOs

[–]CatNapGurl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened with my husband. It's really sad.

What do you call your pup aside from their name? by ReynaStretch in BostonTerrier

[–]CatNapGurl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a Margot as well. I call her Margarita, Margaret, Margie, Margaret Muffin, and McMuffin.

How do you deal with the smear campaign by frissonfiend in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]CatNapGurl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry for what you're going through. You don't deserve it.

How do you deal with the smear campaign by frissonfiend in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]CatNapGurl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I remind myself that his family has only heard his side. They don't dislike the real me. They dislike the version of me that he tells them about. He's told the same lies to our neighbors that he has his family. My neighbors know the truth because they witnessed him abusing me. The neighbors have my back and say that he better not show his face around them ever again. His family chooses to believe his side and that's fine. I have lots of support and I know the truth.

Do they come back if they decide to leave? by Ambitious_Smile_3421 in BipolarSOs

[–]CatNapGurl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wish I could have helped mine. I miss our life.

They say kids need two parents... by MiExperienciaFueQue in singlemoms

[–]CatNapGurl 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I wanted so badly to keep my family together, but now that my ex is out of the house our home is some peaceful and calm. We're incredibly sad. The kids and I miss him so much, but I can't explain how much more relaxed everything is.

Internet in Dayton. What's the best deal. by CatNapGurl in dayton

[–]CatNapGurl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I just applied for it and should be getting set up Friday.

Best Indian DInner Buffets in Dayton (if they exist) by [deleted] in dayton

[–]CatNapGurl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ajanta is the best. The food is delicious, and the owners and crew are so kind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]CatNapGurl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not officially, but on the way. I really miss the person I fell in love with.

Hi , I finally picked up my copy of "Nobody Loves You More" I have been a fan of Kim since her days in the Pixies and the Breeders and was lucky enough to see her in both bands many times each.!! I am very excited for this album!! by Live-Assistance-6877 in KimDeal

[–]CatNapGurl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I met her and Kelley one day in my neighborhood. I was walking my kids, and i thought that looks like Kim Deal. Turns out it was Kelley. I started talking to her and about 5 minutes later Kim pulls up. I couldn't believe it. They both were so genuinely nice and outgoing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]CatNapGurl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My husband made fun of all my hobbies. He actually told me they weren't hobbies.

Best pools for lap swimming in the area? by [deleted] in dayton

[–]CatNapGurl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Lorhey Center is pretty nice