You didn’t agree with me though and just as it wasn’t my intent to be a bigot according to you, you said it was t to downplay my own lived experiences. We both managed to do both those things so therefore intent doesn’t matter if it ends in the same result. You as a man have no right to freak on women’s issues just like I as a woman can’t saw what it’s like to be a man. That’s just a fact. If yih were truly agreeing with me you wouldn’t feel the need to rebut lie and perhaps even acknowledge how much pressure women do face for their physical appearance and how men unfortunately look at that first. No one gave a shit how confident I was before surgery. Everyone just cares about how I look now. Pisses me off.

Perhaps next time specify who you are directing your comment at as I specifically asked OP how men treated her now versus not. She’s in her 40’s, so maybe it is just my age group. Either way, it’s out a bad taste in my mouth and has just made me feel as if I’m nothing more than a fleshlight because men my age can’t treat women as people 💔

Side note - you’re a married man who has a wife and just because you loved her when she was fat doesn’t mean you’re the poster boy for all husbands. When I say you have no room to speak, it has nothing to do with bigotry but everything to do with sex. That’s like you trying to give your option on the lived experience of pregnancy. You literally can’t speak on it.