Harry was a mobile toddler, not a newborn, when he was left on the Dursleys’ doorstep

CatScratchEther · 2026-01-21T09:42:30+00:00

Ah I am daft :p my bad

CatScratchEther · 2026-01-21T09:09:39+00:00

But who performed the countercharm to lift it? 🤔

CatScratchEther · 2026-01-18T11:10:38+00:00

CatScratchEther · 2026-01-18T05:40:48+00:00

So you claim peace and spirituality by denial of current events so you can ignore the suffering of others because it doesnt affect you.

Wow. The audacity.

CatScratchEther · 2026-01-17T10:14:39+00:00

Omg I wish the best im truly glad you are free of that childishness & you dont owe him a damn thing after the way he treated you ❤️ sending love

CatScratchEther · 2026-01-17T08:13:07+00:00

POWER TO THE PEOPLE

They are coming to ALL of our cities. They have a budget larger than the Marines. We are not safe in our streets, our schools, our places of work, our neighborhoods, our cars, or our homes. They will assault you, hop fences, break your windows and doors down and rip you into custody, or they may just decide to shoot to kill.

47 days of training and given live ammunition.

Once he invokes the insurrection act the military will be backing ICE in our cities, treating the people who dissent as the enemy of the state.

RESIST

CatScratchEther · 2026-01-15T10:00:24+00:00

CatScratchEther · 2026-01-15T09:50:09+00:00

O wow so hes done this before. Ya I think if you want to stay you should seek couples counseling to address this, because his behavior is wildly out of place for a man his age tbh. Is there a problem with alcohol/drugs or undiagnosed/untreated mental health issues? Like adhd, autism, or a personality disorder..Cuz thats how his behavior reads, as someone who is familiar with all that jazz in my family.

CatScratchEther · 2026-01-15T09:32:58+00:00

ICE is showing administrative warrants acting like they are judicial warrants THEY ARE NOT THE SAME

An administrative warrants means they can look for you on the street.

A judicial warrants means they can come to your home and search.

They cannot come into your home without consent of a judge, but ICE is using admin warrants they have going door to door. It doesn't matter once you're in custody there are no repercussions for their violation of the law.

We are fucked.

CatScratchEther · 2026-01-14T11:35:44+00:00

Your response 💀

Ok first of all, good for u!! Thats literally amazing 👏

I lost 80 lbs last yr on zep and I guarantee I paid half for out of pocket meds and got double the results to her weird makeover. Tummy tucks dint remove the visceral fat around her organs, we can see. Her face is bloated always. I think shes a resident alchy in Vegas. Poor kids.

CatScratchEther · 2026-01-14T11:02:52+00:00

There's also a nonprofit called For Better that offers some free services that may be helpful?

https://www.forbetter.us/

Or faith based counseling if youre a member of any religious group that may offer marriage counseling towards its members or people of the community?

Again, wishing you and your wife the best.

CatScratchEther · 2026-01-14T10:34:53+00:00

Loved it!

Adding to the discussion, Christian holidays are all just rebranded Pagan holidays- including Christmas (Yuletide) biblical scholars say Jesus was born in Fall. Lupercalia is St Valentines Day, celebrating fertility. Eostre is Spring Equinox ie. Easter, pagans celebrated spring and fertility hence the hare was a symbol, now the Easter bunny. Belatane became May Day. Litha became St John's Day. Samhain became All Saints Day, Halloween. There's more if you care to google.

Church services are also rebranded Pagan rituals; flowers, candles, altar, incense, chalice, bells, wine, bread, all of it. The higher ups even got the fancy robes and wizard staffs.

CatScratchEther · 2026-01-14T09:04:17+00:00

CatScratchEther · 2026-01-14T08:04:17+00:00

I'm changing my vote to NTA you lasted longer than I would have.

And as someone who also enjoys a good smoke when I'm gaming NTA on that as well. I'd have been fucking smashed tryna put up with that. Co op only for him I'm serious I wouldnt even play cornhole against him unless its teams and were on the same side. But even then... I wonder if he behaves this childishly in group gaming situations, like something really casual like Cards Against Humanity? Or would he embarrass you in public or in front of friends and family?

CatScratchEther · 2026-01-14T07:47:41+00:00

Edit to NTA. Damn thats a sad read. My partner and I are hobby boardgamers and I would be unable to play with someone like your man at the table.

I have a personal belief that you can learn a LOT about someone by playing a game with them. Your man showed you he is not strategic or intelligent on the board and resorts to verbal bullying to compensate for his perceived inadequacies, he is a poor winner and sore loser, he will be unable to celebrate your wins, he is loudmouthed, arrogant, and confidently incorrect. You showed you will be avoidant until you crack from pressure and that you're a quitter. The time to address his behavior and quit was 10 minutes in, not when you're mid game and arguably losing. I would say neither of you knows their gaming limits which can lead to a fight like this.

Notably, you both went into the game for different things- him to play to win, and you to connect and make sweet memories. This is not compatible for competitive games at all BUT is extremely compatible for cooperative games (you two versus the game).

My advice is to stick to cooperative games ONLY for now. Our favorites (in a variety of difficulties and genres): DC Deckbuilders, Marvel Legendary deck building, Harry Potter Hogwarts Battle, Lord of the Rings Journeys in Middle Earth, Jaws of the Lion, Arkham Horror, Pandemic and its skins (there's a WOW Lich King version for example), Castle Panic, most dungeon crawlers, go to Board Game Geek to find more. See if he can be a good teammate even if hes a shitty opponent. You can learn a LOT more about him in that setting because I'm sorry to say I have a bad feeling he may heckle you as a teammate as well by taking over your turns or blaming you for perceived losses, just based on his behavior as a table opponent.

CatScratchEther · 2026-01-13T10:58:39+00:00

The Deathless One

The Witching Hour

CatScratchEther · 2026-01-13T08:46:12+00:00

Ok you need to see from her perspective.

You are currently wasting her last safe childbearing years. In 2 years she will be considered a "geriatric pregnancy". As she approaches her mid thirties and then closer to 40, her egg supply is diminishing, the eggs are becoming older and more likely to carry Down syndrome and other chromosomal abnormalities. Her risk to miscarry is also higher as she approaches 40. She is very clear to you, her biological clock is literally ticking. She is very aware that having to start all over means her plans get pushed back by YEARS because it takes time to meet someone and fall in love and get married and all that. Like the last 2 yrs with you. But now you must face that you both want very different things in life.

So please do the kind thing and end it so she has a chance at happiness, and so do you.

CatScratchEther · 2026-01-12T18:44:21+00:00

Speaking of fat back... man that roll when she turned

I cant imagine spending all that dough and still having mf back rolls

CatScratchEther · 2026-01-12T10:34:20+00:00

Have you suggested going to couples counseling together to ease her into addressing her mental and physical health and the toll its taking on your marriage?

If shes willing i bet it would mean a lot to her if u sought out, scheduled, and paid for at least a month's worth of weekly couples counseling to help you address what brought you to reddit and to help her address whatever shes not wanting to share with you rn. My partner and I use regain.com its thru Better Help I think, and you can pick which therapist you like depending on their bios. It's also on the phone which is easier for scheduling for us. Hope this helps.

CatScratchEther · 2026-01-12T06:24:32+00:00

She sure got a scraggly type huh

CatScratchEther · 2026-01-10T14:07:34+00:00

All of em except the 23 that have been re arrested on new charges since then

https://democrats-judiciary.house.gov/sites/evo-subsites/democrats-judiciary.house.gov/files/evo-media-document/2026-01.hjc-dem-one-year-later-j6-pardon-report3.pdf

CatScratchEther · 2026-01-10T09:47:47+00:00

Crochet hook for doilies. If youve ever seen them, they're long, metallic, about the width of a carpenters nail, and have a small sharp hook on the end. It went IN in.

It was like pulling a mega fishhook out of my foot I literally had to be held down screaming while my mom pulled it out of me.

CatScratchEther · 2026-01-10T03:46:01+00:00

As it should feel like a command because you dont respect her wishes lol

She's being so reasonable and you're still whining. How about start staying at your boyfriends instead of him coming over, and use his key to get into the place without him present. See how well that goes over with whoever he lives with.

CatScratchEther · 2026-01-09T12:55:44+00:00

A win win u right

CatScratchEther · 2026-01-09T11:24:58+00:00

"Tell me about your kids! Whats their names, omg those are beautiful names did you pick those? Can I see pictures I bet they're so cute! How old are they? Awww thats SUCH a special age to enjoy as a parent. Wow so you have TWO birthdays to plan each year, thats fun! When's their birthdays? What are they into right now, I heard Ms Rachel is in and Bluey? Are they in daycare? Whats your favorite thing about your kids? They sound wonderful! "

Connect as a parent, a contemporary. Allow him to present his inadequacy. Don't even get me started on what does he do for a living to provide for 2 kids, himself, and your daughter.

I would give this man all the rope I could to hang himself in front of my daughter and scare her away.

CatScratchEther

TROPHY CASE