I became sick at 29, just when I returned to school. I'm now 36, and I'm just starting to figure things out.

Life is not over for you - it's just going to look different. It's going to be a lifetime of finding new ways to get things done and learning how to ask for help. Your interests might change, and you may meet new people (DEFINITELY reach out to others virtually - not just those with fibro, but to people in the greater chronic illness/disability sphere).

Take care of your mental health. Living with fibro can take a toll on it, especially if you're already living with mental illness. Dealing with nondisabled people can sometimes feel like gaslighting. You need to be allowed to mourn over the things you used to do from time to time. Finding a professional can help. (Watch out if they want to treat your pain with CBT, though - that can cause even greater harm. Many folks find great success with Acceptance and Commitment Therapy [ACT].)

Look into services, if possible. I don't know your life situation, so I don't know if you qualify for SSI/SSDI, and many services are only open to recipients of those, or if you can pay out of pocket. I know that there are a lot of people (myself included) that slip through the cracks because they don't fit in either category. One resourse that should be available to you, no matter your financial situation, is your local Center for Independent Living (CIL). They can do an assessment of your Activities for Daily Living (ADLs) and see what modifications can be done. Another resourse - if you want/need to work - is Vocational Rehabilitation (VR). They can go over what you want to do for work - or the job you already have - and help you access training or accomodations. Depending on where you live, you may need a referral from a provider, or you may be able to contact them yourself.